Mental Fitness Magazine Volume 3 | Page 4

(publisher ( publisher’s corner T ( he teen years are stressful. Whether it is school, college, friends, dating or conflicts with parents, the passage to adulthood can be complicated and might even be fraught with trauma. There are so many changes to deal with, both mentally and physically. A lot of stress from within and stress from outside influences in a world that is becoming more complicated. Mental Fitness for Teens and Parents has approached this topic from various perspectives, always with the goal of guiding teens onto the path of recovery with greater resilience and mental fitness. I believe having different perspectives is vital because the path to mental fitness is different for each individual. Everything we live through, negative or positive, is experienced uniquely by each one of us based on our unique biology and the sum of all our previous experiences and current circumstances. Ten people can be hit by exactly the same trauma at the same moment and each one will be affected by it and respond to it differently. The word “unique” brings me to my favorite tool or mental exercise, which I have used to bring my life back onto the path of mental fitness whenever I have felt off-track. That tool is simply to celebrate the miracle of our uniqueness. Think about it: every single human being in every corner of this world has a unique thumbprint and iris. Each one of us is absolutely unique. There has never been and never will be two humans with exactly the same thumbprints or irises. Never. When a teenager is able to recognize and celebrate they are “one of a kind” it’s an awakening to a healthy dose of self-worth. That can lead to practicing self-care. And that ricochets into improved confidence, which propels pushing the boundaries of comfort zones, taking ownership of the direction they want for their lives, further expanding their self-awareness, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually and embracing life fully. Each individual’s uniqueness, it turns out, is a precious key that can open the door to tremendous opportunities to make the very best with the life and body they have been given and to examine the possibilities with introspection, confidence, sense of purpose and curiosity. Every tool and insight in this issue of Mental Fitness Magazine is meant to help teens take that key in their hands, reach that open door of possibilities—no matter what their struggles—and unlock it. ( Each individual’s uniqueness, it turns out, is a precious key that can open the door to tremendous opportunities to make the very best with the life and body they have been given Welcome. Ute Lawrence