MARQUEE @TailoredInNYC August 2016 | Page 2

You won’t hear me ever use the phrase “people of color”. One of the reasons is that I’ve been called “Nigger” three times since the beginning of the year. Each time, that word was derisively used by young, male, University students. The PUBLISHER’S Pen If I were to describe each antagonist, I would share that Antagonist #1 was a light-skinned Hispanic, 5’9 and 165. Antagonist #2 was a brown-skinned Indian, 6’0 and 205. Antagonist #3 was a self-described Egyptian-American, standing 5’10 and I would peg him at 190. Each incident occurred where I, too the untrained eye, was out-numbered. What these youngsters didn’t realize is that I’m never out-numbered. Here’s the advantage that I have: I know exactly where I am at all times. They don’t. I’m 5’11 and 190. Been around the block a few times. So, I know how to size up the opposition. Then, I know which tactic to apply. That comes with experience. And, that’s why some of these University students end up trapped in circumstances that they never could have imagined. HBO has a limited series called “The Night Of”. Set in New York, it weaves a tale of how easily manipulated the inexperienced become when they are uncertain of situations. I highly recommend it. Watch each scene carefully as you do so. Because while some folks spend time having conversations with their sons about how to “act” around police, I urge you to consider otherwise. If not, it’ll go in one ear and out the other.