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Q&A
Q.
Hi Naya. My husband and I have been
together quite a few years. We had a
really hard start but we remained committed
and are stronger for it. We now also have
four young children. During our relationship
we have had two major challenging periods,
both of which he cheated on me. These
were extremely challenging and emotional
times and we questioned our relationship
greatly. It makes me feel that whenever we
will go through a rough patch in the future,
is this what he will do again? I also feel I
am making excuses for him. I know he has
personal insecurities which results in a need
to feel loved and wanted. I know I am guilty
of being hard on him and pushing him away.
What I don't know is that am I being stupid
and really my husband is just a cheater or is
this something we can be strong through?
We do both love each other very much and
we are happy together, but we do have tough
times and the kids are a big motivator to stay
committed. I don't know if i can trust my
husband or not. I would love some words of
wisdom. Thanks, Confused.
chunks will help you to have more clarity. It
sounds like a situation where your husband
is counting on you too much for his own
happiness and you may be trying to nurture
him too much. The danger there is that over
nurturers eventually take on a parenting role
for their spouse, and it changes the dynamics of
the relationship. There are no rules as to what
your heart can or cannot forgive, and whatever
you chose to put first is no one’s business but
yours. Just remember, no matter how insecure
and needy he is, he's still making the choice to
cheat. Perhaps it's time for you to stop trying
to take care of all his emotional needs and
let him start fighting to regain your trust and
respect (and his own). There's no instant fix
for you, so what I say may sound cliché, but
I think you need to re-learn how to focus on
your own happiness without being the fixer for
anyone else. Rediscover who you are and what
you have to offer the world, rather than what
you give your children and husband. Get strong
mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Then, reassess the situation through new eyes,
and decide if you want to live in the past, or
forget it completely and create what you want
your life to be within or without your marriage.
A.
Hi There. Your situation must feel
confusing with so much going on, and as
time goes by, each dramatic event adds a new
layer and a new kind of confusion. Perhaps
dissecting your situation into just a few big
Q.
I feel like people take advantage of me.
Or maybe, I let them because I want to be
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more popular. I am a bigger size than all my
friends, and I don’t think I’ve ever felt like I
fit in, its more like they let me be around. So
to make up for it, I do favours for my friends.
They say I’m kind and caring. Even around
friends I feel lonely.
A.
Expand your friendship circle. Meet
new people who have no expectations
from you, create the person you want to be.
It takes practise to have self-esteem and self-
confidence. Have fun and let me know how
you go!
Q.
How does a person change their life
when they have no job, money, or
friends? Writing this down is depressing.
What do you advise?
A.
Focus on what you do have. Write a new
list with all your skills, the things you
desire for the future, and the qualities you have
that will help you get there. Then list the things
you are appreciative for. Then get out there
and apply for jobs. Not just your dream job
either. Get yourself back into a feeling of simple
contentment with life. Celebrate all successes
no matter how small. Change will happen as
soon as you take your focus away from the
negative.
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NUMEROLOGY FORECAST
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ideas. Later this month you gain respect and
recognition and could find yourself taking on
a leadership role. Romance is favourable for
you this month.
To find your Personal Month for March, firstly
calculate your personal year number: simply
add your day and month of birth to the year
2019 and keep adding until you reduce to
a single digit. For example if your date of
birth is 23/04/1975 you would calculate
2+3+0+4+2+0+1+9 = 21 then add 2+1 so your
Personal Year for 2019 is 3.
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March 2019
You will be feeling more playful and find
it easier to express yourself than may have
been the case last month.
This is an exciting time, everything will seem
more intense and alive. March is a good month
for you to get out and about and socialise more.
Secondly, add 3 to your personal year number,
3+3, so March would be a 6 month for you
(remember to continue reducing so you end
up with a single digit between 1 and 9):
Look up your Personal Month Number below
for an overview of what to expect throughout
the month of March:
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Marlborough area covered. You may be feeling reflective early on this
month due to the influence of being in a 7 year.
However, March brings renewed enthusiasm,
increased energy and optimism. This is an
excellent time to take on new challenges at
work, to start new endeavours, or, if you are in
business, to impress a potential new client.
Call us first when you’re
considering selling. March gives you ample opportunity
to influence others.
People will be open and inspired by your
March is your month to deliver, to show
yourself and others that you are willing
and able to do whatever it takes to reach
your goals.
While the overall energy this month is serious
and work orientated, romance can bloom.
Someone is impressed with your go-getter
approach.
This month brings relief from the slow
progress last month.
It can be hectic, which will be easier to navigate
if you insist on “going with the flow”. You will
be surprised by the coincidences that present
in what seems to be perfect timing, take
advantage of them.
The theme of this month is commitment
to your true feelings based around
all relationships.
Whether these are business or personal, you
will be blessed with the ability to clarify your
true feelings and express them easily. Finances
look positive, due to an earlier investment/
previous work completed.
March for you will be filled with the mysteries
of life, take note of your dreams.
You are mentally sharp and creative and will
find it easy to solve problems that have been
lingering for a while. You may be offered an
opportunity to become involved in a new
endeavour.
The worlds of work and personal relationships
require opposite styles in March.
A certain amount of assertiveness in business
and career is favourable in order to promote
your ideas. On the other hand, in your
personal life, a soft approach, patience and
understanding of both yourself and others will
bring much benefit.
You will experience relationships more deeply
and feel greater warmth for others this month.
This reflects strongly in your relationships
with friends and family. You will receive much
support from others, good news with regard to
your career will boost your self-esteem.
The Personal Year Cycle is the only cycle in numerology that follows a simple pattern (1, 2, 3 etc), all other cycles follow a rhythm that is tied to your personal chart.
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Why things seem to flow easier for you at times than at others?
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Numerology is an ancient spiritual science that dates back as far as 2500 years. It can be used as a gateway
to deeper self awareness - having more insight into your talents and abilities can help in every aspect of your life.