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DOS & DON’TS
of wedding Etiquette
BY K ARIN E ROBID AS
While we live in a fast-paced
world, good old etiquette is
always in fashion. Here are
some of the most frequently
asked questions when it comes to
bridal dos and don’ts.
Announcing the Big News
No matter how exciting it might be to post
that beautiful engagement ring on social
media, take the time to inform your relatives
and close friends before sharing the news
with the world. If one or both of you have
children, they should be the first to know.
Sharing the Cost
Today, more and more couples choose to
pay for their own wedding. However, if both
sets of parents insist on offering a helping
hand, take the time to sit down and have a
conversation with them about your vision and
the budget.
Interfaith Wedding
Make sure to combine elements from both
faiths. To help your guests, write in the
wedding program the details and signification
of the rituals that will be performed.
Bridal Shower
Everyone invited to the bridal shower should
also be invited to the wedding. The maid of
honour or the parents of the bride or groom
can host the party.
RSVP and Invitations
Choose the proper formulation on the
invitation. Those who are financing most
of the costs should be the one hosting and
inviting; therefore their names should be first
on the invitation. Always write in third person
and be mindful of titles (Captain, Doctor, and
Senator).
Children and Extra Guests
If children’s names or “and family” are
indicated on the invitation, they are invited. If
the names are not listed, they are not. Same
rule applies to plus ones. If the invitation
mentions, “with a guest,” it is expected that
the answer should include the name of the
accompanying guest.
Dress Code
Take the time to write down the dress code
on the invitation. Formal, casual or white tie,
no matter the dress code, make sure your
guests are informed well in advance to avoid
complications.
Gifts and/or Money
In short, don’t talk about gifts or money…
ever!
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