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LEADING YOU Overcome Overwhelm: 10 Principles To Get Things Done! By Caroline Nyamwaya Mwazi W amaitha wakes up at 5 a.m. daily. She gets ready, leaves the house by 6.15 and, depending on the traffic, gets to work between 6.45 and 7 where she scans the paper for about 30 minutes before starting her day – meetings, calls, e-mails, presentations, reports, proposals, and more meetings. After work she goes to class or the gym or meets up with friends, usually getting home by 8.30 for supper and family time with her husband and 2 children after which she tries to exercise (if she hasn’t already) and retires by 11pm. In the midst of all this she finds time for her ailing mother, siblings, church, charity work and chama meetings (she belongs to 3). She also usually makes it for weddings and family meetings. She hardly gets time for herself and often feels overwhelmed, sometimes wishing that the world would stop so that she could step off. Modern life seems to be picking up pace rather than slowing down. As demands on us increase, we often feel overwhelmed, exhausted and depleted, unable to function and certainly not effective. How do you manage all the demands and still get things done? Let’s look at 10 principles to achieve this. Identify and Connect with your Purpose We all come to this earth alone. Even if you are a twin, you have a unique purpose to fulfill on earth completely separate from One of the biggest contributors to a brooding sense of overwhelm is clutter. As we go through life, we accumulate things - furniture, applianc- es, clothes, shoes, books, magazines and paper. Our virtual world is no different – our phones, tablets and computers are usually teeming with messages, files, folders, videos, games and apps that we no longer use. Aggressively and deci- sively organize your living, work and virtual space – and keep it that way. Sell or give away your stuff. 28 MAL24/18 ISSUE your twin. This is your God-given reason for existing that is non-transferable. It gives you the highest fulfillment beyond money, power and status. Not knowing it can make you wander through life with no anchor to keep you grounded and open to following other people’s agendas. Check your Mindset We all have stretch seasons in our lives – times when it seems there is more to do than the time available. How long you remain in this season depends on your view of your situation and the actions you choose to take to move you to normalcy. Those who successfully navigate their way out of the overwhelmed state are those who assess the situation as a season and create and implement a plan to get back in control. Those who are not so successful get paralyzed and due to their non-action become increasingly overwhelmed, spiralling downward into an ever- darkening black hole of despair, disillusionment and stuckness. Develop a healthier can-do mindset and actively look for ways out of your situation, starting with those in this article. Few Things are Necessary As our time on earth is limited, we should focus our time and energies to fulfilling our purpose. Steve Covey, talks about the big rocks in your life – the key areas of