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While your brand audit results may not be exciting, taking this honest hard look at yourself is the essential first step to re- branding you as it yields the sometimes painful truth and helps you identify what needs to change. Like and Accept Yourself You are a work in progress and even though your audit may have revealed a dismal picture, like and accept yourself. If you don’t, no one else will. Learn also to accept the few things you cannot change, and like yourself regardless. Define your Desired Brand Once your audit is done, you need to clarify your life’s mission, or reason for existing and vision, which defines what you want to become within a given time- frame. These, together with your personal values become the story you want to create with your life including how you want to be known. Once you define your desired brand there may be gaps in who you are now and who you want to become. Use the gaps to help you identify the steps you need to take to re-brand yourself. A brand audit would not be complete with- out checking your so- cial media presence as your social media ac- counts often show up first in searches. What names do you call your- self, what do you like and what images do you post? What do your on- line friends talk about and how do you com- ment on their posts? All these contribute to your brand footprint and may build or erode your personal brand. 08 MAL23/18 ISSUE Positive brands give you mileage with people and open you to new opportunities, taking you, your career and business further, faster. A neg- ative personal brand on the other hand can limit your chances of success by limiting your oppor- tunities. It stands to reason then, that develop- ing a positive and strong personal brand should be a priority. Improve your Packaging With tangible products, packaging matters a lot. Before you speak, you are already making positive or negative impressions by your dressing and body language – it’s rarely neutral. Looking at yourself, what does your dressing say about you? Your physical image should be clean, stylish, pressed and well-fitting, without unnecessarily drawing negative attention to yourself. Keep your outfits and make- up simple and tasteful and let them work together seamlessly – even when you are ‘just’ running errands. You never know who you will run into. Your shoes should also be clean and not scuffed and peeling, having seen better days. Pay attention to your personal hygiene as well – bathe and brush your teeth daily. Drink plenty of water and keep your hair and nails neat and trimmed. Work out regularly to stay fit and improve your physical image and overall health. Be Positive People are attracted to nice, positive people. No matter what you are going through, have joy in your heart and a positive expectation of life. Be grateful for the things that happen in your life. Positive or negative, they teach you important lessons for now and the future. You can choose a positive attitude and consistently doing so makes others view you positively. Be Real Strong brands are authentic – they are consistent inside and out. How real are you? Realness involves walking in integrity and speaking the truth to yourself and others. Do people get what they see or are you multi-faced, with people not sure who the real you is? The more real you are, the more people will trust you and the stronger your personal brand will be. Embrace Excellence You can’t argue with excellence – it is self- evident. As you re-brand yourself, refuse to be ordinary. Instead begin to deliver excellently and commit to delivering the wow factor consistently, so that you get known for excellence. Volunteer for additional projects that others avoid and deliver excellently on them. Work hard, push yourself, be dilig ent, and focused. Go the extra mile and stand out for thoroughness and doing more than what is asked. Relate Well Developing good relating skills is a lifelong process, but well worth the effort. Have unconditional positive regard for others – seeing them in their best, rather than their worst light. Become genuinely interested in people and enhance your understanding of them by actively listening to them and noting their body language which conveys much deeper meaning than the actual words they are saying. Pay attention as people speak and empathize by stepping into their shoes and looking at the world through their eyes. What are they thinking and feeling? Show them that you see how they feel by reflecting this understanding back to them verbally and non-verbally.