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MARKETING EVOLUTION Time Out! Embracing Play In Our Chores By Marion Wakahe A nother new year and as always a new set of expectations placed on us from within and without. On a personal level, many of us set New Year resolutions to improve our financial status, drop weight, get that promotion, improve relationships, amongst others. Professionally, most marketers are under pressure to improve sales, product presence in the market, determining new markets, overseeing product launches, managing communications (especially with customers), amongst others. This year is particularly unique in that many companies are feeling the pressure of recouping significant losses as a result of the unfortunate political upheaval witnessed literally the whole of last year. In our very hectic, modern lives that puts great pressure on us to perform and improve, we focus heavily on personal, family and professional commitments that we have basically forgotten how to ‘live’ and have fun. Walking in the streets of Nairobi and looking at the faces of many individuals, I’m quickly reminded of the movie ‘The Dark Knight.’ One of my favorite actors, the late Heath Ledger (who played the role of Joker), tells a story of how his father slit his mouth so he could have a permanent smile on his face. “Why so serious son, why so serious?” 68 MAL22/18 ISSUE I feel I could ask people on the streets the same question and get them to smile more (of course, no knives). My belief is that we’re too serious, we need to smile some more.... The unfortunate thing that happens to us when we become adults is that we decide play is for children. Most will dismiss play for adults as petty, unproductive or a guilty pleasure and might even brand you insane. No doubt, it’s necessary, necessary to get those numbers in, ensure product is available in all outlets, product launches are successful, etc. Those in no way should be discarded. But here is an idea, in addition to those very important goals why not set the goal for more play, humor and laughter? Generally we play, laugh and joke around but most of us don’t think of allocating time and resources for the same. According to Dr. Bowen F. White, “The only kind of play we honor is competitive play.” The kind of play that’s purposeless, focusing more on the activity than the result is something many adults do not out of schedule but as a result of circumstance, e.g. when playing with kids. At the beginning of this year as I considered how I’d like to see my end year look like, I decided I wanted to be happy, a happiness that’s beyond the boosted self-esteem that’s as a result of meeting my goals; a pure child-like happiness. And so yes, I set a goal to play more, laugh more, be more silly (including smiling at very serious strangers), dance more and sing more. A good number of us will even dismiss play as childish, but I beg to differ; there is a difference between childish and child- like. Childish is incessantly picking at your nose, child-like is having an open heart and mind to new experiences. It’s no wonder that a lot of the innovators of our time were considered more of grown up children. The Wright brothers for example were very child-like. Th ey were open to imagination and experimented on ‘planes’ that made them look silly to many then. However as someone said, the Wright brothers were In our very hectic, modern lives that puts great pressure on us to perform and improve, we focus heavily on personal, family and professional com- mitments that we have basically forgotten how to ‘live’ and have fun.