As someone who doesn’t easily open
up with others, you may want to pick
circles that are odd numbered because
then there’s likely to be that one
person who’s not that deeply engaged
in conversation. That’s the person you
can approach and begin to speak to.
Use reticence to your advantage
As a person who doesn’t easily open
up to people, you’re more likely to
listen than to speak. This is certainly
attractive especially these days when
most people are too busy in their own
heads or pushing their own agenda to
notice other people. Listen and listen
really well. If you can remember
names a week after the event then
you can tap your own back.
Where appropriate approach people
with something in your hand
It could be a glass of wine, a snack,
the event’s program, e