MADE Magazine Issue 8 - Page 24

MADEFEATURES XXXX
MADE : What advice would you give men who work with their wife ( or significant other ) as you and Meagan have been doing for The Wait ? Is it easy ?
DF : It ’ s been cool actually . It ’ s been really good . We ’ ve enjoyed it . We go back and forth on different words and sentences and that kind of stuff , but overall because we were so aligned with what the book was about and the intention of the book , it actually made it great . It ’ s actually fun . It ’ s fun to be able to work together on and be passionate about it . It actually just continued to enhance our marriage .
MADE : Do you feel like you ’ ve made it ? And if not , at what point will you feel like you have ?
DF : Nope , I don ’ t feel like I have made it . I feel like pieces are in place , and I ’ m getting to a place where I believe I can make it . But I have not made it yet . And what that will look like , I don ’ t know . It ’ ll be more of a feeling . I don ’ t have a clear idea that I can articulate that would be the definition of “ Okay , I ’ ve made it ”.
There ’ s a feeling , there ’ s an idea that I have in my head that when I envision my life and what I want it to feel like and what I want / how I want to feel on a day-to-day basis , I think I ’ m on my way , but I ’ m not there yet . And I hesitate to define being there by anything external because that to me is setting myself up for failure and no fulfilment .

... Because the moment that you begin to share your life with somebody , you have to make sure that they see and support the vision that you have .”

So I try to define being there an internal thing , which is why I describe it as a feeling that I want to have . It is a feeling of freedom . And that freedom is inherently based on opportunity to freely flow in all of the various gifts that I have and know that from a financial standpoint and opportunity standpoint that I have the right finances and opportunity to have the freedom to be fully who I am . ◊ made-magazine mademagazine . com
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MADEFEATURES MADE XXXX MADE: What advice would you give men who work with their wife (or significant other) as you and Meagan have been doing for The Wait? Is it easy? DF: It’s been cool actually. It’s been really good. We’ve enjoyed it. We go back and forth on different words and sentences and that kind of stuff, but overall because we were so aligned with what the book was about and the intention of the book, it actually made it great. It’s actually fun. It’s fun to be able to work together on and be passionate about it. It actually just continued to enhance our marriage. ...Because the moment that you MADE: Do you feel like you’ve made it? And if not, at what point will you feel like you have? begin to share your DF: Nope, I don’t feel like I have made it. I feel like pieces are in place, and I’m getting to a place where I believe I can make it. But I have not made it yet. And what that will look like, I don’t know. It’ll be more of a feeling. I don’t have a clear idea that I can articulate that would be the definition of “Okay, I’ve made it”. life with somebody, There’s a feeling, there’s an idea that I have in my head that w $٥ͥ䁱)ݡЁ$݅ЁЁѼݡЁ$)݅н܁$݅ЁѼѼ)̰ͥ$ѡ'e݅䰁Ё'e)ѡɔи$ͥхєѼ)ѡɔ䁅ѡѕɹ͔ѡЁѼ)͕́ѥ͕ȁɔ)ձи()Ёѡ()ԁٔѼ)ɔѡЁѡ͕)٥ͥѡЁ)ٔt()M$Ѽѡɔѕɹ)ѡݡ́ݡ$͍ɥЁ́)ѡЁ$݅ЁѼٔ%Ё́)ɕѡЁɕ́ɕѱ)͕չѼɕ䁙܁)ѡمɥ́́ѡЁ$ٔ)ѡЁɽхЁ)չхЁѡЁ$ٔѡ)ɥЁ́չѼٔѡ)ɕѼձݡ$^()饹)饹((((0