Luxe Kurves Magazine September 2018 | Page 100

How to Indicate and Remove Negativity Block out the negative this fall and every season! Life is too short to allow anyone to throw negativity your way! I know you’re asking “How do I spot it and remove it?” Well here are some tips for you, my beauties! Tip 1-If you have someone in your life that just calls you with bad or sad news — BOOM! — get rid of them! There is a balance in life, and it does not have to be half-half between bad and good. I call it the 70/30 of life: 70% good news and 30% bad news, and those are the correct proportions for the recipe of life! Tip 2- We all have that one person that finds their way into our lives when all we are doing is living! They come in and cause an HD, “Hurricane of Drama!” They see you doing you and they are just unhappy with their lives and what to bring the HD your way! You must RE- MOVE these people out of your life, even if they are family, because unhappy people don’t want to see you live! Tip 3- Gut feelings and instincts were given to us for a reason. To protect us from danger in every aspect of our lives. Do not ignore them, if they signal negativity being channeled your way. If you meet someone and their energy is off to you, that’s your instincts nudging you to shuffle along. Do not engage and stay clear! by: Brandee J