Luxe-Factor Summer 2016 Edition | Page 17

3)SECOND GLANCE

Women if you have been eyeing someone off at a party, or anywhere really, but you have not been noticed yet try the second glance technique. It's so simple and I guarantee if they are even slightly interested you will very soon have their entire concentration focused on you. Its simple, it works the same, as eye contact but has to be done from a much closer distance. I usually do a walk by making sure I am about to walk into her line of sight. And when I force her to fall into my line of site I look away and then turn back to look again very subtle, in a way that nobody would have even seen except her and instantly drop the smile and eye contact.

4) SELF PRUNING

Watch your target’s body language, when he/she is looking at you … are they beautifying themselves? Its a subconscious thing we tend to groom ourselves a lot more frequently when we are attracted to someone. If your target is not showing these signs there is no reason why you cant do them.

5)ITS IN THE LIPS

Another great subconscious trick is to lick your lips. No not like porn star … the best way to describe it is like you do when you have chaffed lips but a little slower. Licking your lips is the minds way of recognizing that you are preparing for a kiss.

6)CROSSING YOUR LEGS

Women cross your legs. It’s another sure-fire flirting technique and sends guys crazy and wanting to see more.

7)SHAPE UP

Guys, stand tall and straight don't slouch remember you're trying to be the most prominent man in the room so feel like it and she will start to see it. Be calm and pull your shoulders back show that you are confident.

8)LET YOUR FEET DO THE TALKING

Body language experts state that women should stand with their feet no more then 6 inches apart and with toes pointing inwards. While men should position their feet 6 - 10 inches apart with their toes pointing outwards to promote the sign of dominance.

9)MIME

The highest form of any type of flattery has always been to imitate someone. Try not to go to overboard and make a fool of yourself. Just pick up on the way your target talks and holds themself… slight similarities will make your target feel more comfortable.

10)PAY ATTENTION

Focus on what your target is saying, Rarely can you find someone more attractive then someone that finds you genuinely interesting, so be that person, The one that finds them really interesting. Keep things simple and light listen to what they are saying and throw in a few jokes here and there just to keep the smiles working. Don't be afraid to touch them in a non-sexual manner. Often it can be received as very soothing especially coming from a man. As a man you should never underestimate the power of your hands when used in a sensual and caring manner.

Follow the signals above and keep them in mind throughout your first contact. Avoid the typical stereotype advances of trying to show off. It’s as see through as glass and will only make you look like your really not genuine about getting to know them at all.

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By: H. Lee