Luxe-Factor Summer 2016 Edition | Page 15

For some marrying on connecting with a high society significant other is a real aspiration. Love is a funny thing, for some, the only way to feel any connection with someone is if they feel that person is financially stable enough to make them feel “safe”…especially if you are;

On your path to success and looking for someone equally yoked

Know you have a skillset to help motivate the next CEO or Mega entrepreneur

Know you are asset to your wealthy mate?

Don't think of the pursuit of a wealthy mate as shallow. According to "How To Marry A Multi-Millionaire: The Ultimate Guide To High Net Worth Dating," by Ted Morgan and Serena Worth, the most common qualities that women desire in a man - charm, humor and intelligence, for instance - can be found in most wealthy men. As the book says, "the cash is a very nice side benefit."

The wealthy often have a very different perspective on virtually every aspect of life. Their work ethic is different, their belief system is often different, their perspective is different and sometimes even their code of ethics may be different.

Like any pursuit, there are certain things you can do to increase your odds of success;

Know your worth…

Get on the "high net worth" dating circuit.

Prepare. Find out who's rich, where these men live and their past and present entanglements. Chatting with high-society women is a great way to find out who's on the market.

Go where the rich go. Since many wealthy people find their mates at social events, mingle at high-end cocktail parties and charity benefits which can be discovered from most local high society publications.

Never buy the dinner ticket, however. Dinner tickets to charity parties can range from $500 to over $1,000. To avoid paying an arm and a leg, buy the after-party ticket instead.

Find a partner in crime. If you're uncomfortable socializing alone, take a male or female friend along to help you feel more relaxed and to arrange introductions.

Go in as "arm candy." Attend the party with an attractive date who is looking to find rich women. You two can work the room together and help each other meet potential mates.

Be yourself. Despite the money and often being more exposed to more culture and experiences…the wealthy are still human…just like you

Enjoy the journey, have fun…whether it’s in your cards or not to wed or be with one of the mega rich… the experience will invariably give you experiences and memories that will last a lifetime

Lastly…know your worth…it was mentioned but is important enough to mention again…often we see a person’s financial status and forget just like you they’re searching hoping to find someone just like you… KNOW, you have just as much to give them as they do you…

Good luck on your journey…

By: Dreamy