Luxe Beat Magazine SEPTEMBER 2014 | Page 94

Book Review This is Your Life No Apology Needed by Terry Jean Taylor By Maralyn D. Hill M any women spend so much of their lives trying to please others, they don’t take time to please themselves. They do not necessarily realize that by taking care of their own needs first, they will have more to share willingly with those who matter to them. Terry Jean Taylor shows you how to dig into the corners of your life, face various aspects you may have avoided and deal with them in a reasonable manner in This is Your Life: No Apology Needed. Author Terry Jean Taylor’s book is a work of several years in the making, with many interviews and revisions in order to capture what she sees as this essence. It is a labor of perseverance, determination and most of all, love for living life to its fullest. Because it seeps into so many aspects of one’s life, it is quite lengthy and I suggest reading it in sections. Some of the sections will resonate immediately and you may think, “Yes, that is exactly how I feel.” Other sections may cause you to ponder and wonder if you could undertake her suggestions and solutions. There will probably be sections that you say, “I could never do or want to do that.” All of these reactions are good, as they help make you aware of what you do by choice, guilt, or inertia. After all, This is Your Life: No Apology Needed. Another suggestion is to skip over sections that seem to be challenging at the present time and return to them when you are ready. Sometimes, it is easier to take one step at a time. Terry poured so much thought into covering a myriad of situations; you have to deal with what you can handle a little at a time. There are a few readers who are ready to steamroll ahead, but most prefer to go slowly, thinking and planning. Terry’s hope is that for what you do by guilt or inertia, you re-evaluate and determine what you want to do. Those are choices you alone can make. If you choose to keep your same course, that is fine, when you realize it is by your own choice. The key to This is Your Life: No Apology Needed is that it is your life, and you have the power to live it. Terry Jean Taylor Your Recipe for Living Coach yourrecipeforlivingcoach.com