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accommodation Keeping families together Louise Anderson’s son, Dean, has severe autism, intellectual disability and epilepsy. She is brutally honest about what life would be like for her family without the regular overnight breaks they receive from caring for Dean. “I wouldn’t be married. We’d and relentless, and said short-term be divorced. We simply accommodation was the answer to Senior Manager Kristy Simmonds wouldn’t be a family unit. their prayers. said while there is a move towards Dean would be over to the system. I “It’s essential, it’s important. It is hate to say that and I don’t want to a lifeline to our family. It really is.” say that. There isn’t a parent I know Dean attends a short-term VMCH Accommodation Services providing people with disability support in their homes, short- term accommodation still plays an who wants to even think about that, accommodation home in Lilydale in let alone verbalise it. But that’s the Melbourne’s Yarra Valley for children truth. It’s where we’d be,” she said. with disability which is run by not- options outside the home are crucial for-profit Catholic organisation, Villa for many families to continue to Maria Catholic Homes (VMCH). be able to support their child with Louise describes her teenage son’s daily care needs as complex important role for many families. “Short-term accommodation disability,” she said. “Families need to have the choice about the type of short-term accommodation that is right for their child and family. Overnight support in the home is not the right option for all families.” Louise said Dean’s time at Lilydale is a lot more than just a break for mum and dad. Louise jokes that Dean also gets a break from his “nagging parents”. It’s even more than that. The family works closely with the team at Lilydale to help Dean develop skills that help him become independent as possible. “Our aim for him is to be as happy and independent as he possibly can be and this house provides the interim step,” Louise said. 30 accommodation linkonline.com.au