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Life Without Conflict
different from anyone. I maintain oneness with everyone.
Where there is a difference of opinion, there is partial
gnan and in the absence of conflicts, there is absolute science,
Gnan. Where there is science, there is absolute knowledge.
Only if you remain in the center, in your absolute state as the
Self, there will be no conflicts and only then will you attain
liberation. If you move away from the center, there will be
differences of ‘mine’ and ‘yours’ and liberation cannot be
attained. Only the impartial one will be liberated.
What are the signs of being enlightened? It is when
everyone in the home does wrong and you turn it around and
make it right. All you have to know is how to fix the fuse on
a machine if it blows up. You must know how to adjust with
people’s prakruti. For me, even when the other person blows
his fuse, my adjustment is always there. But, what happens
when the other person does not know how to adjust? He loses
his fuse and gets into a conflict with everyone until someone
fixes his fuse, but until then his confusion remains.
In this worldly life, wounds are inevitable. Even the
women of the household will say, “This hurt will not heal,
enough is enough.” But once she is drawn back into the worldly
life, the wounds heal. Because of the attachment for the worldly
life, the illusion continues. That which is not real, appears real.
Therefore, the wounds heal. The allure for worldly things and
life continues. If the wounds did not heal, then renunciation of
worldly life would grow. What is the definition of attachment
(moha)? It is where a person tolerates many painful experiences
but then forgets them all. For example, when a man goes
through a divorce he resolves he will never get involved with
another woman, and then he marries again.
What a Trap!
How will this world maintain a balance if people won’t