80 Life Without Conflict
actions . People do things that make no sense . They will put the bucket upside down and leave the tap running all night long . They only ruin things for themselves ; they think they are ruining things for the other person , but this can never be . No one is capable of ruining anything for anyone else . No such person has been born .
It is impossible to assess the prakrutis of Indian people . God himself becomes baffled ! The prakruti of people in other countries is straightforward . For example , if a man vows to remain faithful to his wife , then he will do so for the rest of his life . But here , you can observe a person ’ s prakruti all daylong and still not be able to assess it . Their karmas and prakruti are very complex . Their unfolding karmas drive them to do things that put them at a disadvantage and they hurt themselves . Otherwise , are these people likely to do anything that would cause them hurt ? Not these people , they are extremely shrewd . They would be cautious even when they are dying , they would put their soul aside and then die !
Resolve Conflicts by Turning Your Words Around
Dadashri : Do you have conflicts when you are having your meals ?
Questioner : Conflicts are inevitable , Dada .
Dadashri : Why ? Did you make a contract to do that when you got married ?
Questioner : No .
Dadashri : At the time of your wedding , you agreed to be aware and maintain awareness when times called for it . In your home , you should not use words like , ‘ mine ’ and ‘ yours ’. Your speech should not create a separation ; do you not belong to a family that never divides ?