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Life Without Conflict
A Home Without Conflict, Is A Temple
God does not reside in a home where there are conflicts.
Therefore tell God, “Sir, stay in the temple, do not come to our
home. We will build temples for you but do not come to our
home.” I assure you that God resides in a home where there is
no conflict. Conflicts can be destroyed through understanding
and intellect. Even through your prakruti, without Self-
realization, you can have the understanding of how to avoid
conflicts caused by difference in opinions. This is done through
the medium of the right intellect. True understanding exists when
there remain no differences with anyone. Differences occur
because communication is inadequate and ineffective. Otherwise,
there would be no differences in opinions. These differences of
opinions are the cause of conflict; it is a weakness.
When any conflict occurs, if you take time and calm
down, and let you chit (inner organ of knowledge and vision)
simmer down, and then analyze the situation by thinking about
it, you will experience inner clarifications and understanding.
God will leave your home as soon as there is a quarrel, will he
not?
Questioner : Yes, he would.
Dadashri : God will not leave people’s homes but when
quarrel arises, He will say, “Let us go from here, we will not be
comfortable here,” and so God leaves for the derasars (Jain
temples) and the temples. People quarrel and steal from
temples also, and so God says, “Let us leave from here too.”
Even God has become tired of all this.
You should have a conflict-free life at home. You should
at least know how to attain that. If you do not know anything
else, at least explain to your family in this way: “God will leave
if there are conflicts and quarrels in our home. Therefore, let us