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has come your way is solely because of your own past karma
and that the other person is simply an instrument in the process.
With this understanding and this Gnan, all your puzzles will be
solved.
Questioner : Does that mean we have to accept and
come to a closure in our mind, that whatever we had dished out
is coming back to us?
Dadashri : The other person is a pure Soul and this, on
the outside, is his prakruti. It is the prakruti that delivers the
effect of past causes. You are the pure Soul and he too is a
pure soul. Now where is the wire that connects the two? This
is your prakruti and that is his; both the prakrutis are settling
each other’s karmic debts. It is because of the unfolding of this
prakruti’s karma that the other prakruti is giving something
back. That is why we say, “This is my own karmic account that
has come into maturation, the other person is merely instrumental
in the process and by doing what he did, my karmic account is
cleared and paid off.” When you have such a solution, is there
a need to tolerate anything at all?
What happens if you try to tolerate? If you do not solve
things through Gnan and understanding, the spring will one day
recoil. Have you ever seen a spring recoil? My spring used to
recoil a lot. For a while, I used to tolerate a lot, but then when
the ‘spring’ recoiled, everything around me would blow up! All
this used to happen in the absence of Gnan but I do remember
it well. It is all in my Gnan and that is why I am telling you not
to learn to tolerate things. It is only in the state of ignorance of
the Self that one has to tolerate. You must clarify everything
through Gnan and understand what the consequences will be
by doing things a certain way. What was the cause behind it?
You have to look deeper in your account book, not a single
event that comes to you is outside of your account book.