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bound and obliged to do so. You did what was mandatory. You
should carry out all your duties.
[5] Understanding Brings Radiance To Your
Home Life
How to Resolve Differences of Opinions
A very strange time is coming. There will be storm after
storm. Therefore, be vigilant. Just as we have hurricanes and
storms in the atmosphere, there will be many natural catastrophes.
Human beings will have to face tremendous difficulties. As such,
people have so many difficulties in life; everyone is roasting like
potatoes in a fire from all directions. People do not understand
what they are living for. They have also lost faith in themselves.
What can be done now? At home, people have conflicts with
their family and do not know how to resolve them. They feel
confused and overwhelmed.
Questioner : The husband says, “The wife has to
compromise. I won’t.”
Dadashri : Yes, it means everything has reached the
limit. If the husband says he will not compromise, but the wife
has to, it means he has reached the end of his limit. A real man
will respond in a manner that will please his wife and smooth
things over so their train of life can move ahead. But instead,
you people hold back your train for days and months on end!
That is not acceptable. As long as conflicts continue in the mind
of the other person, your difficulties will continue. Therefore,
work towards a resolution.
Questioner : How can we tell whether the other party
has come to a closure but also what if there is harm in it for
them?
Dadashri : That is not your concern; it is theirs. You do