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Life Without Conflict
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Dadashri : Religion has already deteriorated. There is
nothing left to deteriorate. Now there is a rise in religion. A new
beginning comes only after a decline. Just as there is ebb and
tide in the ocean, this world too operates on the principle of
ebb and tide. Man cannot survive without religion. Other than
religion, what other support does man have?
Children are mirrors; they reflect the mistakes that lie
within the parents.
A father cannot sleep at night worrying about his son, but
his son sleeps peacefully. Here, the fault lies with the father. I
told one such father, “You are the one at fault in this. You had
spoilt your child in the past life and that too, for your personal
gain.” This fact is worth understanding. What can a child do if
he is born to an uncertified father and mother? Men become
fathers around the age of twenty to twenty-five. Their own
fathers complain about them and yet they become fathers without
any certification. How can you blame the son? Children will come
and tell me about all their wrongdoings, they will even confess to
stealing. Confession is to be made only to a great spiritual
master. There will be some extraordinary changes in India.
The Aura Of Fire: The Aura Of Respect
Questioner : Dada graces us so that there will be peace
in our home and that we may progress in our spirituality.
Dadashri : Yes, not just for peace in your homes but
also so that your children will learn high moral value by
observing you, such is this Gnan. Children have become mad
from watching their parents’ madness. Parents do not have
appropriate thoughts or conduct. Husband and wife behave
inappropriately in front of their children, so what do you expect
from the children? What kind of impression does that have on
them? Surely, you need to maintain boundaries. What kind of