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Dadashri : It is wrong to remain detached, but it is also
wrong to become attached. You just have to maintain from
within, ‘It would be good if the lights were to come back.’
You are asked to remain calm. ‘It would be good if the
customers come.’ Just maintain this much but do not get
excited. Maintain regularity and do not spoil your inner intent.
To maintain regularity is your true effort. Do not get agitated
if there are no customers and when some day there is a throng
of customers, see to it that every customer is served to their
satisfaction. Instead, people get angry with their employees if
there are no customers. How would you feel if you were in
their shoes? The poor worker comes to do your job and you
tell them off. He will put up with your abuse, but at the same
time, he will bind vengeance against you. You should never be
harsh to your servant. He is human too! The poor man is
miserable at home, and at work, you keep telling him off.
Where is the poor man to go? Show him some kindness.
When a customer comes to your shop, show him your
goods with love and patience, and when you have no
customers, then remember God and meditate. Instead, you
fret looking to see if any customers are coming and your
intellect then troubles you, ‘Today I am going to make a loss’.
You become overcome with anxiety and then you take out
your frustrations on your workers. You become engulfed in
adverse meditative states. Whatever customers come to your
shop, they come because of vyavasthit and only those who
are meant to come will come, so do not interfere in the
process. When you have customers,