142 Life Without Conflict
Dadashri : You are the guardian of your wife and your children . Why should the guardian be the only one to worry ? Your family members tell you not to worry , and yet you do .
Questioner : What is the nature of worries ? The worries are not present when we are born , so where do they come from ?
Dadashri : As your intellect increases , so does your internal suffering . When a child is born , does he have intellect ? It is necessary for you to think about your business for ten to fifteen minutes , but if you go beyond this , then you will be bombarded with thought after thought and that is going beyond normality . When that happens , you must let go . Thoughts about your business are inevitable but if you become engrossed with the thoughts , they will linger on , leading to worries , and such adverse meditation is very detrimental for you .
Keep Your Intentions Pure To Pay All Debts
Questioner : I have incurred a very heavy loss in my business , what should I do ? Should I close the business ? I am in deep debt .
Dadashri : Losses incurred in a cotton business , cannot be recouped by opening a grocery store . Losses incurred in business have to be regained from the same business ; you cannot recoup your losses by doing a different job . Can you recoup losses from a business of contract by opening up a beetle nut store ? The injuries you incurred from whatever trade you were in will have to be healed in the same trade . Therein lies the medicine for your wounds .
The only thing you have to maintain is that you do not want to hurt any living being , even in the slightest degree . Be pure in your intentions to pay off all your debts . If your