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relative and temporary. You are simply act out your role as you
would in a drama. Once you leave this body, you will have to
resume your role in a drama elsewhere. These relationships are
not real; they are merely worldly relationships. Once the karmic
account is finished, the son will not go with the parents.
Instead, you complain, “This man insulted me!” Let go of
your foolishness, insults are meant to be swallowed. When your
husband insults you, you should remember, ‘This is my karmic
account, my husband is merely an instrument in the process and
that he is really innocent. When my karmas take a turn for the
better, my husband will give me a lot of respect.’ You must
remain calm and try to resolve the matter, but if in your mind
you think, ‘I am not at fault and yet why does he speak to me
this way?’ then you will stay awake for hours at night, and
finally tire and fall asleep.
Those who have become a superior over God have
attained something, but those who have tried to become
superiors over their wives have been doomed. The one who
tries to become the superior will be doomed for sure. But what
does God say? “If you become my superior, I will be happy.
I have enjoyed being your superior for so long but now if you
become my superior, it would be good.”
The understanding that what the Gnani gives you will
liberate you. What can you possibly achieve without the
understanding? The religion of the Vitarag Lords will liberate
you from all miseries.
At home, you should turn things around. The atmosphere
in your home should be wonderful. A wife should feel as though
she would never be able to find another husband like hers and
the husband should feel as though he would never be able to
find a wife like his. If you are able to bring about such changes,
then truly you are worthy.