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Life Without Conflict
Should we accept in our mind that the severe conflicts we face
are from our previous life?
Dadashri : You cannot discharge your karmas by doing
only that. By ‘discharge’, we mean that you should make a
connection with the other person and notify the soul within him.
Admit to the soul within that person that you have made many
mistakes. You have to do significant pratikramans.
Questioner : If the other person insults me, do I still
have to do his pratikraman?
Dadashri : You have to do pratikraman only if he
insults you, not if he treats you with respect. If you do
pratikraman, you will not have any feelings of abhorrence
towards him. Furthermore, he will be aware of the positive
vibrations from your pratikraman. The first step is that there
are no feelings of abhorrence towards him but the second step
is that the other person becomes aware of this.
Questioner : It really reaches his soul?
Dadashri : Yes, it reaches for sure. The soul then tells
him, ‘There has been a call for you.’ Our pratikramans are for
acts of aggression, not for routine mundane activities.
Questioner : Do we have to do many pratikramans?
Dadashri : The faster you want to build your house, the
more workers you have to employ. If you fail to do
pratikraman with people at large, it will do but you have to do
pratikraman of those around you and in your home. For those
in your home, you must have the inner intent that those who are
born, around you, and to you, should some day get on the path
of liberation.
With Adjustments All Conflicts Will Dissolve
The one who learns the art of adjusting is the one who