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drinking glasses and when she tells you, you should simply put
them where she tells you. Some men will make a comment like,
“Do you not have any sense where to put them?” The wife will
then make a comment like, “So use your own sense and put
them away!” Now how can there be an end to such situations?
These are nothing but events clashing. These are all tops
clashing with each other; they clash when they eat; they clash
the moment they wake up. These tops bang into each other and
get hurt and they even bleed! The blood that oozes is from their
minds. It would be better to bleed physically, that way at least
you could dress the wound. But, can anyone dress the wounds
of the mind?
Gnani’s Words Heal All Wounds
To say anything to anyone in your home is a major
disease of the ego. Everyone has brought with them their own
karmic accounts! Events are naturally unfolding for each and
everyone, you do not have to tell them, ‘Do this,’ or ‘Why do
you not do that?’ Each one is looking through his eyes; each
one is listening through his ears! There is no need to interfere
at all. Do not say even a single word to anyone and that is why
I am giving you this knowledge of vyavasthit. The world is
never, even for a moment, outside the laws of vyavasthit. Even
when it appears not to be vyavasthit, it is vyavasthit.
Therefore, you only need to understand the facts. If sometimes
your kite takes a plunge, you simply have to pull on its string.
You now have control of the string (this is applicable to the one
who has received Gnan). But what can a person do if he does
not have the control over the string? The control is not in his
hands and he is cries out, “My kite is falling, my kite is falling!”
You should cease to say anything to anyone in the home.
No one can say a word except a Gnani. Why is that? This is
because the speech of the Gnani is dependent upon the wishes