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Questioner : Maybe they get enjoyment from quarreling.
Dadashri : Peace does not prevail because of the
current time cycle, so the one burning, only finds peace when
he burns others. He does not like it if someone is happy, he only
finds peace when he lights the wick before he leaves. This is the
nature of the world today. Even the animals are courteous, they
do not quarrel. Even the dogs stick together amongst their own
group and fight united against other dogs, whereas these foolish
people fight amongst each other! People have no courtesy
nowadays.
Become Quarrel-proof
Questioner : I have no desire to quarrel under any
circumstances, but what should I do if people in the household
start a quarrel?
Dadashri : You should become quarrel-proof, only then
will you be able to live in this worldly life. I will make you
quarrel-proof. Your nature should become such that even
people looking for a quarrel, will get tired. You should become
such that absolutely no one in the world can depress you. If you
become quarrel-proof then there is no problem. Even if people
want to quarrel with you or shout abuses at you, there will be
no problems. And despite doing this, you cannot be considered
thick-skinned, on the contrary your spiritual awareness will
increase many fold.
Seeds of Revenge: Trees of Quarrels
Whatever quarrels you had committed in your past life
had created revenge, and that revenge manifests in the form of
a quarrel today. The seeds of revenge are sown the moment
quarreling takes place, and these seeds will then grow in the
next life.