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Life Without Conflict 107 do not you bring about a solution quickly? If you send this man to get some ice cream, he may come back empty-handed. If you ask him why, he will tell you that on the way there he came across a donkey, which is a sign of bad luck, and that is why he came back empty-handed. Now since this man has acquired incorrect knowledge, should we not get rid of it? We should explain to him that God resides in the donkey as well, so there is no such thing as bad luck and that his contempt towards the donkey, reaches the God within and as a consequence, he will incur a tremendous karmic liability. Caution him not to make the same mistake again. People cannot adjust because of incorrect knowledge. Counter-pulley You should not voice your opinion first; first ask what the other person thinks. If the other person insists on his viewpoint, I let go of mine. I only consider one thing, that I hurt no one. You should take the other person’s viewpoint into consideration, and not try to force your opinion upon them. I have taken everyone’s opinion, and only then have I become a Gnani. If I ever try to impose my viewpoint on anyone, I would become weak. No one should be hurt because of your opinion. Your revolutions may be at eighteen hundred per minute and the other person’s maybe at eight hundred, so if you impose your opinion on the other person, his engine will breakdown and the gears will need to be repaired. Questioner : What do you mean by ‘revolutions’? Dadashri : It is the speed at which thoughts occur. Everyone has different revolutions. If something happens, the mind will show you many things within just one minute, it shows you many different aspects at a time. All these powerful presidents have eight hundred revolutions, mine are at five thousand. Lord Mahavir’s were a hundred thousand!