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queen yet they plotted against the King. It is of no consequence
to them that they too would become widows; they just wanted
to make sure that the favorite queen became a widow!
I can see very clearly the scenario of Emperor Bharat
and his queens. How the queens were sulking; how the king
agonized worrying. I can see it all. On the other hand, if one
queen were married to thirteen hundred kings, the kings would
not have sulking faces. Men do not know how to sulk.
Accusations – How Hurtful They Are!
Everything is readily available, but people just do not
know how to enjoy it. They do not know the art of enjoyment.
As the wealthy businessmen sit to dine at their enormous
dinning table, they complain and fight with their wives. They
complain that their wives do not let them be at peace and that
they nag for no reason. Little do they realize that no one can
bother anyone else without a reason and a past cause. If
someone does bother them, it is well within the laws of nature,
and yet they go around making such accusations. They have no
clue. The human quality is lost. How can anyone accuse
members of his own family? People of past time cycle never
accused each other, even when they had a reason to. They
would first think about the hurt they would inflict through their
accusations. But today, in the Kaliyug, people scheme to get
even. How can it be acceptable to have conflict in one’s own
home?
The Liability is Your Own When You Clash.
Questioner : What is the reason behind differences in
opinions and conflicts?
Dadashri : Terrible ignorance! Man does not know how
to live, he does not know how to be a father, nor does he know
how to be a husband. He does not know the art of living.