LeadershipHQ Magazine June 2015 2nd Edition | Page 29

Influence & Persuasion A large chunk of activity in business involves humans influencing – or at least attempting to influence – others, to do something that will advantage the influencer and, in the best of circumstances, themselves. Robert Cialdini’s Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion with more than 2 million copies sold since its publication in 1984 is now something of a modern-day bible on how we persuade and are persuaded. If you are in business and have not yet read at least a summary of Dr Cialdini’s work, now would be a good time to make that investment. That goes double for those of us with responsibilities for sales, marketing or leadership. Cialini’s PhD research identified six “click-whirr responses” to which we are all subject: 1. Reciprocity: If I do something for you I create a predisposition in you to do something for me (give a gift, then ask for a favour); 2. Commitment & consistency: Saying or writing that we’ll do something increases the likelihood that we’ll do it; while doing something in a small way increases our predisposition to do it in a bigger way (“Tell us in 20 words or less why you like Aeroplane Jelly”); 3. Social Proof: People like us do this, even when “this” might entail suicide (viz the Jones Town massacre, and speculation around the recent Germanwings co-pilot’s crash motives); 4. Authority: We tend to obey authority figures, sometimes with horrendous consequences (viz the Nazi defence: “I was just following orders!”); 5. Liking: We favour and are easily influenced by people we like or to whom we are attracted (hence movie star endorsements of household products); 6. Scarcity: We value things that are scarce (“Hurry! Last one. Last days. Last chance”; if DeBeers derestricted diamond supply they would be worth very little) 29 | © LeadershipHQ 2015 Using Persuasion So, how might you use persuasion – preferably, ethically – to increase your chances of more often achieving a desired outcome? Here’s a 6-step pr