Leadership Magazines Leadership Magazine Issue 3 | Page 43

Providing Personal Product Experiences “My mother, Kendra, had used essential oils for quite some time and to be honest we used to think, ‘give me a break, that can’t work!’ However, after becoming increasingly frustrated with the medical community, and their inability to help my sick children, I asked my mother for advice. She gave me a bottle of breathe. I was skeptical, but desperate so I tried it. We now use dōTERRA oils every day, and we will never go back!” - Dani Smith Being Persistent not Pushy “Gina Truman, Boyd’s sister, asked me to look at dōTERRA essential oils, but I was very reluctant. I said no, and didn’t attend the meeting she was holding in her home. Gina continued to invite me, she was persistent and eventually I agreed.” - Sandy Truman “I think of it like this, why not share dōTERRA with family, they’re the people I love the most. As long as it comes from the heart, with no pressure, then it never gets awkward. I think the key is to build this business with passion and that will automatically attract others, including family. At this point, the majority of our family members are product junkies, and many of them have caught the vision and are building a business with us.” - Brianne Hovey Permitting Them to Choose “I will credit most of my success to the fact that I allowed my family members the opportunity to choose their own path. Some chose in, some didn’t, those who did have been remarkably blessed and changed for the better.” - Chelsea Stevens Placing Family in an Organization “Keep the strongest potential builders closest to you. Some people think they will ‘help’ their aged parents by placing them direct and then placing great family-member builders underneath them. My experience is that this typically separates the true builders and slows down the growth and momentum.” However, keep your family together if you can, it promotes collaboration and leaves less space for competition. Start out family legs strong then place others that you hope bloom underneath the most committed, capable family members.“ - Natalie Goddard “ hy not share dōTERRA with family, they’re the people W I love the most. As long as it comes from the heart then it never gets awkward.” - Brianne Hovey “When placing family members, approach the person you believe will be the best leader first. Openly discuss the expectations associated with leading a large team in dōTERRA. The person who is most committed to doing this goes on top. The rest of your family goes in a line straight down, with those who want to be ‘customers only’ placed at the bottom. By doing this, you have removed any antagonism caused by cross line competition within the family.” - Justin Lee Allowing for Personal Development “Due to my experiences through this journey, I have started to see my family differently. I have become more patient with them, and am learning to trust more in their choices. I have seen them start to shift things that have increased their effectiveness and success. I would highly recommend working with family. It has allowed me the opportunity to love them deeper than before!” - Chelsea Stevens Managing Family Expectations “Be careful. Be wise. Don’t make any assumptions. Be clear in conversations and expectations.” - Natalie Goddard “Establish a clear business relationship prior to building. I like to do the following, express excitement, but set expectations and boundaries for dealing with conflict. Let them know that although as a brother, sister, or cousin, you would not question each other about business or money, as a partner you both need to fill comfortable doing so. You might say something like this, ‘I want you to feel like you can talk to me about anything even if you think it may offend me, and I want permission to do the same. So, if you ever want to bring something up that may be uncomfortable, preface it with, I want to talk to you like a business partner. ’” - Justin Lee 43