Leadership Magazines Leadership Magazine Issue 10 - Page 87

“Immerse yourself in personal development. I found that if I am left to my own head then doubts will always take over. But, if I’m putting enough good stuff in, then I can crowd out the doubt and start believing the good.” – Wendy Build Relationships had communicated with our kids and enlisted them in the cause, and they’ve always been supportive, but I feel like since I’ve been able to zero in on what their love languages are, I don’t have any guilt, and I don’t think they feel like their mom is missing when I’m gone.” Being aware of each other’s needs enables both Wendy and Aaron to serve outside the home and know that those needs have been met. They say, “Our family dynamic is better, 100 percent. We enjoy each other more, and it has nothing to do with money. It has everything to do with the mindset and a raised awareness of relationships.” Many Wellness Advocates lead very busy lives. Wendy and Aaron have some great tips on how to stay connected with their family and also build relationships with their dōTERRA team. Learn about love languages. Wendy and Aaron read The 5 Love Languages by Gary D. Chapman and then read it with their kids. Figure out what love languages each person needs. The Frazier family spent time at the dinner table talking about what they each needed. Apply it. With your new awareness, make sure that you are speaking love in a way that the person understands. “Start with the end in mind. Believe and visualize, because you can create anything you can visualize. There is so much power in believing in yourself.” – Aaron www.doterra.com 87