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Though we know the challenges for our LGBTQ+ youth, we aren’t doing enough to sufficiently address them. The following suggestions will help individuals, schools and school systems to provide safer, more in- clusive environments. Simply put, for some of our students this is life or death work. Individuals Teachers and administrators are role models. Whether they choose to police gender expression or celebrate diversity has profound effects on the development of stu- dents’ adult beliefs. • For elementary teachers, choose books that have a queer or trans protagonist. If this idea seems challenging, think of all of the stories that have a heterosexual lead. Most “happily ever afters” are reserved solely for a male/female pairing. Diverse books allow for students to imagine their future and see themselves as “normal.” • Limit your gendered classroom direc- tions. Replace “boys and girls” with “schol- ars, scientists or authors.” • California EdCode requires that social science teachers teach LGBT history, “with particular emphasis on portraying the role of these groups in contemporary society.” Including these queer figures in history dis- cussions makes students, queer and straight, feel safer in schools (Russell 2006). Though not required beyond the scope of social sci- ence, so many LGBT individuals have in- fluenced all academic subjects and the in- formation could be shared to have a robust conversation. • Interrupt bullying or biased behavior when you see it happen. This should be auto- matic, but many educators don’t actively stop bullying or use biased comments as a teach- able moment. • Ref lect about how to become an ally. Jal Mehta (2017) has an article titled the “The White Journey to Racial Awareness: A Stage Theory,” which provides a helpful framework and strong parallel for individu- als to reflect on their allyship to LGBTQ+ individuals. Schools Schools should be a kind place where ev- eryone is welcome. As you work to create an Though we know the challenges for our LGBTQ+ youth, we aren’t doing enough to sufficiently address them. inclusive environment, create a welcoming school climate and provide visual reminders that all are welcome. • Start a Gay-Straight Alliance on cam- pus. Building community with peers is one of the most important strategies for queer or questioning students. The GSA can sponsor schoolwide events like “Day of Silence” or “National Coming Out Day.” • All families in your school community must feel included. Sponsor a parent affinity group for queer parents and include photos of queer or single parent families in murals. • California law requires single stall bath- rooms to be gender neutral. Students should use whatever bathroom corresponds to their gender identity. • Review sex ed curriculum to ensure that it discusses safety and consent for same-sex couples and that the teacher feels comfort- able discussing these issues with students. • Collect data on your queer-identified students and those who have known issues with bullying. Analyze these data to deter- mine any academic achievement gaps that exist; align supports to ensure that students are supported. Systems An inclusive school system is one that regularly listens and responds to the needs of their queer students and faculty to ensure they are able to thrive. • Visibility is crucial. When starting an affinity group for Oakland educators, many staff members responded that it was the first time they had their whole selves seen by their employers. Allow queer folks to dis- cuss queer issues, but ensure they don’t have to champion all LGBTQ+ issues and be the sole “gay voice” at their school site. • Current events may negatively impact the LGBTQ+ community in ways differ- ent than straight co-workers. Acknowledge these events and get comfortable listening to an experience that might not be your own. • Review healthcare and medical leave policies to ensure there is not an uninten- tional consequence for same-sex individu- als. Parental leaves are especially important. • Ensure that your district’s non-discrim- ination policy specifically mentions gender identity and sexual orientation. • Have a clearly defined process for name and gender pronoun changes. In Oakland, there is a simple form to update our records and ensure that our internal student records mirror students’ true selves. • Join the Out for Safe Schools Initiative. This initiative from the Los Angeles LGBT November | December 2017 13