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confrontation has a harsh-tone, which trig- gers the amygdala to question or anticipate if a harsher “threat to safety” is coming. A proximal confrontation could mean stand- ing too close to a student when correcting, getting in their face/space, and even moving your hands/arms too much while correcting the student. It is always best to think “de- escalation” in terms of words, tone and body language when working with students who may be impacted by trauma. If you can have less reactivity, then the better you are at being more balanced and present – a calming presence The eight Rs TI leadership gives you a lens to create a trauma-sensitive environment (TSE). There are eight Rs in creating a TSE. The first four Rs are about how adults need to be respon- sive: realize, recognize, respond and resist re-traumatizing. As adults, we need to realize that, “Oh, some of my students have been exposed to trauma.” Once you realize that, then you recognize it by your more responsive actions, then you will not have the amygdala hijack reaction and be so easily triggered, leading to a negative interaction with a student. You will be able to self-regulate in the moment and respond appropriately. Most impor- tantly, resist re-traumatizing the student by utilizing the shared strategies and de-esca- lating a situation. Remember that students are not in the same space of awareness and adult maturity. The second set of four Rs are the adult be- haviors needed for a TSE: • Routines – links to predictability and classroom management. Plus, if home is not a safe place, then the student can have a safe adult relationship at school. Adults need to teach routines because often students who have experienced trauma in the home do not have routines – or the routines are not healthy. • Rituals – some type of ritual that helps students feel special, calm and connected; maybe it’s meditation, maybe it is circle time. • Relationships – A healthy connection to a caring adult is essential to healing and re- silience. Plus, a healthy connection models a healthy relationship for a child and helps to rewire the brain for positive connection. • Regulation – Often, traumatized stu- dents do not have the tools to self-regulate. Adults need to model that: “You know what in your classroom, in your school, in your life. I do when I’m upset? I start to breathe and just let myself calm down or I go to a quiet place for a few minutes.” Lastly, the research shows that there are five key elements to creating and sustaining trauma-informed leadership and a trauma- sensitive environment: 1) Adults must adaptively change behav- iors, assumptions and beliefs. 2) Adults must focus on student engage- ment with positive school-wide plans linked with positive classroom management. 3) All school staff need to be involved in the professional development and reflection process around TSE. 4) High quality, relevant instruction to engage students is essential to learning. 5) School leaders must create an environ- ment where it is safe for adults to share and reflect on beliefs and practices. All school staff need to be involved with professional development and ref lection processes around social-emotional learning (SEL), around creating TSE. School leaders have to create environments where it’s safe for adults to share, be vulnerable, speak their truth, heal and have difficult conversations. We must create our work environment to be a safe place to reflect on the beliefs and the practices we engage in for those we serve. We are creating our school culture. We have to get out of our comfort zone in that area. We so often make students who can’t relate to us adapt to us and our ways, when we can’t relate and connect to them and their ways. While research has provided those five key elements, we are advocating for a sixth: We have to partake in the healing work that results in greater adult capacity building of social-emotional intelligence. Again, it starts from within, from the inside-out. Also, we are asserting that teacher and administrator preparation programs need to engage in SEL, and that this work be part of professional development, because we have to engage in our own unhealed traumas and social-emotional learning as adults. Again, we cannot teach what we do not embody. Trauma-informed leadership is not about changing the students, it’s about changing adult behaviors. It’s not a curriculum, it’s a mindset and a way-of-being. There’s a lot of self-work that has to go into that before we implement with efficacy. Resources • Adolescent Health Working Group (2013). “Trauma and Resilience: An Ado- lescence Provider Toolkit.” Retrieved from https://rodriguezgsarah.files.wordpress. com/2013/05/traumaresbooklet-web.pdf. • Australian Childhood Foundation: Pro- tecting Children. (2010). “Making Space for Learning: Trauma Informed Practice in Schools.” Retrieved from www.theactgroup. com.au/documents/makingspaceforlearn- ing-traumainschools.pdf. • Burke-Harris, N. 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