A few other very important aspects of backup. Both men and women need to
true love comes about in the following show a healthy bit of oomph in certain
situations:
situations: airing a bold new idea or
standing up for yourself. It is good to
1. Understanding. Any person needs to know your partner will back you up.
vent or cry. Both of these are a release
mechanism for stress and tension. 3. Support systems. Everybody needs
Inevitably the situation does not warrant hugging and reassurance from time to
the display of emotion. It is a culmination time. When insecurities surface people
of events. You shouldn’t fear losing it. As react positively to genuine compliments
partner you should rise to the occasion and sincere attention. We need to hear
and without argument or backchat, display that we are okay. We need to know we are
calm attention and understanding.
appreciated. It gives confidence and we
are able to negotiate the day’s challenges
2. Being one another’s cheerleaders and with courage and self-assurance.
“You know you’re
in love when you
can’t fall asleep
because reality is
finally better than
your dreams.” Dr Seuss