La Gazzetta Italiana 2013 Volume 20 | Page 12

Feature Feature A Special Christmas Found in War-Torn Italy Raimondo P. Bernacchi contributing writer Per Raimondo Bernacchi, arruolato nella Marina Americana nei difficili anni della Seconda Guerra Mondiale, incontrare per la prima volta i nonni a Lucca durante un breve congedo natalizio, rimane uno dei suoi più toccanti e bei ricordi delle festività. systems were not readily available, so at 5 p.m. on December 21, a cold and blustery night, I departed from my ship at Venice and started to hitchhike in a southwesterly direction, hoping for the best. My efforts paid off as I traveled by armored British vehicle, ferried across tives. When I was growing up, my parents, who were born and raised in the Lucca area, always talked about the Quattro Murri, meaning the four walls. I inquired about transportation to that area and was told to take a trolley, which I did, and the conductor informed me when I arrived there. My most treasured memory dates back to December, 1946. It was this Christmas season that I met my grandparents for the first time. At the time, I was serving in the U.S. Navy and was aboard a ship in the Northern Adriatic, as part of the Allied Naval Occupational Forces. Italy was slowly recovering from a long, dreadful war. Many of the highways, railways and bridges were still severely damaged, and travel was restricted. Knowing that my grandparents lived in Lucca, a distance of approximately 300 miles, I was determined to find a way to visit them, and spend Christmas Day with them. Left: Lori Benacci, Mary Joy (DiPlacido) Aumer, Norma (Mangin) Flynn After several requests to various com- Right: John Benacci, Charles Mangin, Kathleen (Mangin) Flynn manding officers, I was given a five-day leave, only because I could fluently speak the Po River, walked several miles, As I got off the trolley, I noticed that I Italian. Now that I was granted the rode on a train, and finally at 6 a.m. was out in the country at what seemed to leave, my next problem was how to get the following day I arrived in Lucca. be an intersection. Only two of the four to Lucca. Most of the transportation My next challenge was to locate my rela- walls were remaining. My next decision was to select which of the four roads I should take. I decided to take the one going up the hill as I could see a home with lights in the distance. The time was now about 8 a.m. and after about 1000 feet up the hilly road, I noticed an elderly gentleman with a cane coming down the hill. As we met, we greeted, and I asked if he knew where the Bernacchi’s or Lucianis lived. He looked at me strangely and asked in Italian, “Who are you?” I identified myself and told him who my parents were. He dropped the cane, threw his arms around me and told me he was my dad’s schoolmate and closest friend. He then personally escorted me to the Bernacchi home up the road, where I was greeted by uncles, aunts and cousins. The festivities started almost immediately, and for two hectic days in a simple and humble fashion, I was treated like a king. But the best was saved for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, for it was then that I was able for the very first time to meet my maternal grandparents, the Lucianis. Needless to say, it was an emotional and joyous reunion. The celebration started with Midnight Mass at the family church, followed by a family reunion on Christmas Day. December 26 came too soon, for I was again traveling through the countryside returning to my ship. Yes, a dream had come true. This was to become my most treasured Christmas memory. Traditional Abruzze Christmas Dinner Alicia Mazzi contributing writer, Cleveland, Ohio I piatti del tipico cenone di Natale abruzzese continuano a mantenere vive le tradizioni e la storia di questa regione. Ingredienti semplici e locali danno vita a ricette deliziose tramandate di generazione in generazione, che preservano nel tempo il piacere di raccogliersi attorno alla tavola per celebrare le festività. The holidays and good Italian food go hand-in-hand. Mention Christmas Eve, and it is sure to conjure up memories of the traditional Feast of the Seven Fishes. However, for those who could not bear to eat fish as children, Christmas Day became the actual feast day to celebrate and give thanks for all we had been given. On Christmas, families celebrated the birth of our Lord and enjoyed an entire day devoted to the family. For many in the region of Abruzzo, not only was Christmas special, but the 12th day - the Epiphany - was the most important day to celebrate. Coincidentally, my grandmother was born on the Epiphany. Both of my grandmothers began menuplanning for Christmas Eve and Christmas day weeks in advance. Christmas Day’s menu consisted of lasagna. The leftover dough was used to make “sagna pats” (piece of lasagna noodles cut into squares that would be used for the Epiphany dinner.) The bar was covered with delicious antipasto spread and plenty of wine. This was and still is my favorite part of the dinner. It was the one time of the year where ALL the Italian meats, cheeses, olives, roasted red peppers, lupini, marinated ­12 eggplant and mushrooms were served. There were always plenty of leftovers for the entire next week. Dinner began with a prayer and a champagne toast, even for the children. The meal began with meatless lasagna, roast beef, roast chicken, liver sausage (this was special and only my great grandfather ate it) served with the salad and roasted vegetables. At Christmastime there was Torrone (which to this day I can only eat at Christmas), biscotti, cookies, cakes, and of course the chestnuts for dessert. Dessert was served hours after the meal. The children went to play, the adults cleaned the dishes, and everyone sat around talking and laughing. The wine was either homemade from relatives, or we served Riunite. We never had expensive wine. These are the traditions I became accustomed to as a child. With most of the family gone, I did some research and was delighted to find that our dinner was almost identical to what the Italians in the region still eat today. They begin with wedding soup, almost identical to ours except they use cardons instead of swiss chard. The Italians also serve meatless lasagna for Christmas with roasted meats, vegetables and salad. They have all the same cookies as well as Torrone and chestnuts to serve as dessert. They enjoy their meal, and then sit around talking for hours. Knowing that my family kept these traditions, and that we are still connected to our region through the food we eat, is very special. Today Christmas is smaller; many family members have passed away or moved away, and we are more spread out than in the past. But we still try to keep these traditions alive regar- dless of the food we eat. It is the love we share for our family on that special day that connects us to our past. These are all traditions that should be celebrated as our connection to the past and not forgotten as the years go by. This year, take time on Christmas to sit down with a glass of homemade wine, enjoy your meal, pull out old photos to share with the family, and talk about our beautiful history. LA GAZZETTA ITALIANA | DECEMBER 2013 A Christmas Season in Italy Laurene Cirino DiCillo contributing writer Tante sono le feste e le tradizioni celebrate in tutta Italia durante le festività natalizie, iniziando dalla ricorrenza di San Nicola il 6 dicembre per finire con l’Epifania il 6 gennaio. L’elemento che le accomuna rimane l’importanza della famiglia, del cibo e della fede. From the Feast of St. Nicholas on December 6 to Epiphany on January 6, Italians have found many ways to honor the birth of Christ beyond the calendar day of December 25. Activities based on the importance of saints, customs, and traditions vary among different villages, cities and regions. In joyful anticipation of Christ’s coming and commemoration of his birth, specialty foods, music, processions and bonfires are at the heart of most of these celebrations. The Feast of St. Nicholas on December 6 celebrates the momentous arrival of the saint’s remains in Italy in the 11th Century. Though St. Nicholas was of Greek descent, born in Asia Minor and made Bishop in Myra during the 4th Century, his partial remains were secretly moved to Bari, Italy by Italian sailors in 1087. Christians feared that when the Turks invaded Asia Minor, they would be unable to make pilgrimages to Myra to honor the saint at his tomb, and so the sailors took off with the human relics so that he could be honored elsewhere. Nicholas’ history was one of endurance through the Christian persecutions. His dedication to Christianity, his love and generosity offered for those in need, and the multiple miracles attributed to St. Nicholas made him a widely venerated figure. He is a patron saint of many— children, maidens wishing to be married, scholars, mariners, and prisoners—just to name a few. The Basilica di San Nicola was built in honor of St. Nicholas in Bari. Each May, the statue of St. Nicholas, or Nicola, is taken out to sea for the day. While the statue is at sea, throngs of people, including dignitaries of the town, gather to welcome the statue back to Bari. A candlelight procession helps to lead the statue back to the basilica. On the eve of December 6, cities such as Molfetta and Trieste await the coming of San Nicola as other cultures would wait for LA GAZZETTA ITALIANA | DECEMBER 2013 Santa Claus. Children leave letters for him asking for gifts and promising good behavior for the following year! While the children are sleeping, San Nicola leaves chocolates, candies and other special things. Family patriarchs dress up as St. Nicholas and hand out gifts. Coal is given to children who have misbehaved. The Feast of St. Lucy, or Santa Lucia, comes next in the holiday season on December 13. Lucy was a young girl from Siracusa, Sicily who tragically suffered at the hands of pagans for her devotion to Christ. Specifically, the man to whom her mother committed her for marriage was so embittered by her refusal of marriage, that he turned her in to authorities. Dragged by oxen, eyes torn out in an attempt to get her to refute her Christianity, no amount of torture could get Lucy to give in. History recounts that around the year 310, a fire was set to torture her but the fires just wouldn’t stay lit. She was then stabbed in the throat with a dagger but appeared to only die once she was given the Christian sacrament. She is known as the patron saint of those with eye problems. St. Lucy’s remains can be venerated at the Church of San Geremia in Venice. Her head was sent to Louis XII of France and still remains there in the Cathedral of Bourges. To mark the Feast Day, torchlight processions and bonfires commemorate the young girl whose name means “light.” This also goes along with the winter solstice which occurs around the same time. The meal most commonly associated with the feast day is Cuccia, a cooked wheat porridge that can be made savory or sweet. As the story goes, during a famine in Sicily, the people invoked St. Lucy and were rewarded with a ship appearing in the harbor filled with grain. A sweet version of Cuccia is a mixture of cooked wheat, fig honey, orange peel and walnuts. Some Sicilians refuse to eat wheat on December 13 to honor St. Lucy. Almond cookies, made to resemble eyes and served in pairs, are often served during the Feast of Santa Lucia so that people recall the torture she had to endure. In certain regions of Northern Italy, St. Lucy is the gift-bearer during the Christmas season, and as with other occasions, coal was left for naughty children! According to tradition, Lucy travels around on a donkey to deliver the gifts. Children leave coffee for Lucia and a bowl of milk and carrots for the donkey. In regions such as Lombardy and Veneto, Goose is the main fare for the holiday. In Udine, Venice, where her bones are buried and many go to pray to Lucy, frico, or fried cheese wedges are served to honor her memory. Children receive candy and gifts and sing for the Feast. In preparation for Christmas, many Italians pray Christmas Novenas—nine consecutive days of prayer which ends at Midnight Mass on Christmas Eve. In Rome and some other Italian cities, the sounds of bagpipes can be heard ringing through the streets to announce that Christmas is near. The Nativity, above all else, is the centerpiece of decorations. The image of the Holy Family as seen in the crèche (as legend tells us was first created by Francis of Assisi) symbolizes the two most important parts of Christmas for Italians: the birth of Christ and family togetherness. From living Nativities traveling from home to home or stationed in the Piazzas, to the still figurines, whether small or life-size, these scenes adorn every imaginable public place and private home. Christmas Eve traditionally begins with a sumptuous meal, meatless, and usually comprised of multiple fish dishes—seven fishes is the number most commonly associated with this meal. Capitone, or fried eel is a favorite Rulli Bros. Market West 4331 Kirk Road Austintown, OH 44511 Phone: (330) 799-3477 Serving the Valley Since “1917” main course. (On a personal note, I will never forget the Christmas Eve that my Aunt Sylvia, never averse to making jaws drop, had a giant eel sitting on the table as her centerpiece of food. We American-born children just squealed and ran for the other room!) Following Christmas Eve dinner, many attend Midnight Mass. The Pope presides over the Mass at the Vatican— a most solemn and moving event. Some families stay up the whole night following Mass enjoying games and celebrating! Christmas Day is simply spent enjoying family time. Christmas dinner is served midday. Meatfilled ravioli or tortellini is one of the most traditional Christmas meals. Lamb and gooseliver are often included in the menu, served with accompanying vegetables and mashed potatoes and lentils. Sweet breads such as Pannetone (from Milan), Pandoro (star-shaped from Verona), Pangiallo (Roman), Panforte (a dense fruitcake from Sienna dating back to a 13th Century monastery), Panpepato (a gingerbread cake from Ferrara and Tuscany), and Pandolce (Genovese) are served for dessert. Almonds, served in a number of desserts such as torrone and other cookies, are very traditional and important to include in a Christmas meal because, according to folklore, eating nuts contributes to the fertility of the earth and its people. Celebrations continue for New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day for Italians. Being in the company of good friends is very important for New Year’s Eve. It is also customary on New Year’s Eve to discard unwanted items from the house—from clothing to furniture. New Year’s Day is the time to claim others’ discarded items. One might even find a Fendi bag among the giveaways! Typically, the menus served on Christmas Day are served again on New Year’s Day. Epiphany, also known as the Feast of the Three Kings, is celebrated on January 6 and is the highlight and the conclusion of the Christmas Season for many in Italy. On the eve of Epiphany, Italian children prepare for the arrival of La Befana, a somewhat dilapidated, but lovable witch who rides her broom around bringing gifts to good children. Stockings are hung by the chimneys, much like in the tradition of Santa Claus. According to legend, a few days before the birth of Jesus, Befana was asked to join the Magi to follow the star to find the Christ Child but declined, stating she was too busy with her chores. After the Wise Men left, Befana realized she should have gone with them and tried to follow them with a basket full of sweets. She never found the Three Kings or the Baby Jesus, and it is said that on each Epiphany she flies around on her broomstick still trying to find them. 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