Kushe' Magazine Volume II December 2013 | Page 23

growing and learning your craft. You should never settle and you have to be prepared for bumps in the road. When you are an artist, the hard times will come. But that is what makes you an even better artist. I am nowhere near where I want to be, but sometimes you have to take a step back and look at all the things you have accomplished and be thankful for every experience you had, whether good or bad. The three biggest lessons my field has taught me: faith, patience and perseverance...don't leave home without them. Kushe’: If you could do anything now, what would you do? Why? Nzinga: I have been writing for years now and it's time for me to start producing. There is no reason for all my scripts to collect dust by just sitting in a pile. So now is the time to kick fear to the curb and put my work out there. It's not easy, but as the saying goes "nothing worth having comes easy." As you can tell I am a fan of adages. Kushe’: What would you like to say to your supporters out there? Nzinga: I would like to say thank you to every supporter out there. As an African, there are some communities that really support each other; then there are some that just don't. It's heartbreaking when people do not support each other because people truly fail to realize the importance of strength in numbers. There is a reason for the saying "together we rise, divided we fall." So I do my best to sup- port all fellow artists and entrepreneurs, especially the ones who work so hard, but are underrepresented. Kushe’: Did you face any challenges before landing at this threshold in life? Nzinga: I faced many challenges and still continue to face them, but that is all part of the journey. The harder the challenge the harder I work. Challenge is like an adrenaline to me. It gives me the drive to do everything in my power to get where I want to go. Before I even got a manager I had been told to get headshots done while I was still in college. One of the challenges I thought I would face a lot came from a comment from a former agent. I had given him my first headshot to look at and he told me commercially I would do well, BUT theatrically, he wasn't so sure...then these words actually came out of his mouth "you see Nzinga, usually people with strong negroid features, such as yourself, have a hard time making it big in Hollywood. I mean let’s face it; you will never be a Halle Berry." As you can imagine those words were shocking and hurtful, but for some reason I was grateful to that guy because I told myself I would prove him wrong. You can never allow people to speak over your destiny. Only you have that power. I don't want to be a Halle Berry anyway. She has worked hard to be where she is and I am going to work hard to be an Nzinga Blake. 23 Kushe’: What advice would you give to men and women who are striving to be in your industry? Nzinga: You have to have a thick skin and you can never give up no matter what. I hate to sound so cliché, but it's the honest truth. Rejection will become an annoying buddy that doesn't go away, but every victory will be the best friend that lasts a lifetime. Kushe’: What’s your favorite African dish? Nzinga: Egusi hands down. My Mama taught me how to make it and if I do say so myself - de soup sweet oh! Kushe’: If you were an animal, what would you be? Nzinga: A bird. I would love to fly. And soaring all possibilities in life is just what Nzinga does best. She has learned that every experience is part of an amazing adventure called life. “You never stop learning and you work hard, but leave enough room for play”, a lesson passed down from her parents.