Kids Feb, 2014

TOG | Issue 1 1 Physical Safety/Situational Awareness and Stranger Safety Tip for Children Physical Safety/Situational Awareness and Stranger Safety Tip for Children by TOG Staff Children spend a good part of their time at school and on the playground. People who want to hurt them know this too. It is normal and natural when children spend time laying and having fun, that they sometimes play and travel out of the sight of a trusted and caring adult. It is essential that parents know where there children are playing and the timeframe that they will be at that location. Nearly 1 million children are reported missing each year. We want to help reduce this number by making sure you know the necessary steps to keeping your child safe. The best way to keep trouble away is to avoid areas and situations where trouble may be. Who Is A Stranger? A stranger is someone you do not know well. If a parent asks a child who a stranger is, he or she may describe a creepy-looking person or even a villain in a cartoon. This is an opportunity for parents to convey to their kids that a stranger can have any type of appearance. A stranger can be a woman or a man. Strangers can dress in nice clothes and have a neat appearance. Children should focus less on appearance and concentrate on the fact that a stranger is someone they don’t know. Some kids are naturally polite and this can work against them in a situation with a stranger. For instance, a stranger may drive up beside a child who is walking on a sidewalk and ask the child for directions to a particular street or shop. A child who is polite may feel it is rude to just hurry away. This is where parents must assure children that it’s not rude to walk away from a stranger who approaches them in a car. The child is looking out for his or her own safety. An adult never needs to ask a child for directions. Kids Have Rights! Kids have rights too, and sometimes it is okay to say no to an adult, especially when it is a stranger. The tips on the following page will help keep all our children safer. A testimonial from Troop 4337: Thank you so much to the Trident Operations Group for our awesome training on Jan. 18th. Our Brownie Troop 4337 learned so much about awareness, safety & confidence! As parents, we all have taken seriously the "homework" we now have to continue to use the tools you shared with us in helping to teach our girls how to keep themselves safe. You all have such a GREAT way with children - the girls were able to learn so much due to the talent you have in balancing didactic discussion with fun activities - critically important in engaging a group of highly active & enthusiastic 8-year-olds! And, on top of that, we all earned our Self-Defense Patch! So all in all, it was time well-spent & we couldn't have asked for a better group of professionals to facilitate such an important life-lesson. THANK YOU Trident Operations Group! I would be happy to recommend your group to any other organization who hopes to gain from your collective knowledge, expertise & professionalism! We at The Trident Operations Group hope that all parents will engage in regular discussions with their children about potential threats and how to recognize and react to them in various settings. Danger cannot be reacted to until it is recognized. Child predators count on children to not recognize the threat.