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Home Away From Home D uring my childhood growing up in a boarding school in New England, USA, long before the age of DVDs and movies-on-demand, The Wizard of Oz was shown on national television once a year. The movie is based on a series of books written by L. Frank Baum – an American classic. It is a tale about Dorothy, a young farm girl from rural America, who experiences a sensational dream journey after she is swept away from her home in a giant tornado and plunked down in a strange place, far, far from the farmlands of Kansas. It is an adventure about creating community where you find yourself plopped, about overcoming challenges in the pursuit of your dreams and relying on the kindness of others to help find your way. Dorothy knew she needed the support of others to find her way home, and she encouraged friends along the Yellow Brick Road to join her in her travels. Her travel companions included, The Scarecrow, The Tin Man and The Cowardly Lion. Her journey back home is a perilous one full of new people and situations that challenge her thinking and teach her important life lessons. The line that struck me most was “There’s no place like home,” the chant which Dorothy recites at the end of the film as she clicks her ruby-slippered heels together on her final attempt to get back to Auntie Em and Uncle Henry. Upon arrival at Keystone I am sure some of the teachers and students felt they too had been dropped in a strange place, far, far from home and might have even thought, “There’s no place like home.” For some of us it is also our first time living in China, and for our students, perhaps the first time living away from home. With this in mind, we set straight away to the task of making our “home away from home” a place where students, parents and teachers feel welcome. Head of School, Malcolm McKenzie, noted in his speech at the Matriculation Ceremony that, “Induction happens when you lead someone into a new place, or space.” Well, your children are certainly being led into new places and spaces on a daily basis, and they are creating and experiencing unique opportunities and traditions. And I am confident that your children are meeting a cast of beloved characters right her in Shunyi – teachers, advisors and friends, and our “new place” is beginning to feel a little less like a daily adventure, and more like a way of life. 58 The Keystone Magazine A New Life, A New Student This new way of life in the Keystone residences is already taking shape in the form of a brotherhood and sisterhood. Friend groups that are sure to last a lifetime are being forged. I’ve seen such friendships before, boarding school connections that stand the test of time. To date I receive wedding photos of my past students. And I chuckle every time to see young men who, 10 years or more ago, lived with me in the dorm when they were in grade 10, gathered around the groom with their receding hairlines and fuller bellies. In my mind they are still 15 years old, crowded around a table in the dorm lounge over a math book trying to figure out the next day’s homework, laughing about some inside joke or trying to teach each other how to properly use the microwave. These kids are creating memories, and in some cases finding soulmates. Take some of our boys for instance. They have created the first Keystone band, and gave their first performance at the Halloween party. On a nightly basis our dorm hallways echo with the rhythm and melody of violins, guitars and traditional Chinese instruments. Everyone here is seeking and finding that network of support, friendship and trust, gathering more characters on their journey through life just as Dorothy did in The Wizard of Oz. I have been awed by our students’ abilities to navigate having a roommate and in some cases