Keystone Magazine Learning the Keystone Way 2015-2016 EN | Page 111

thinking and doing these tasks and more time with each other and participating in the greater life of the school.” For instance Jenny Small, middle and high school Design and Visual Arts teacher, organized the students on her floor to create an Easter tree. “ The idea was to make something collaboratively to help build community on the floor and to give our floor a little personality,” says Ms. Small In my experience, the greatest impact on a child’s character is when an adult personally en- gages with a child, and expertly guides him or her through diffi- cult times. Teaching the lessons of moral courage, or dealing with negative peer pressure or dishonesty can be taught directly in a teachable moment through trust-based conversa- tions and self-reflection. Some of the most powerful lessons of character have emerged from such intimate exchanges. Drawing from our community’s shared values, our students are asked to reflect on how their ac- tions either exemplify or detract from a particular shared value, such as honesty or compassion. Great progress has been made in this area, and our students who initially found residential life and its structures difficult to follow have shown greater ac- quisition of the skills and values needed to function in a close knit community through self reliance, independence, effec- tive decision making, honesty, reflection, and more. The Keystone residential com- munity extends beyond life on campus and the dorms. Resi- dential faculty members plan and organize trips and activi- ties throughout each weekend that inculcate the IB learner values of risk taking and knowl- edge. More and more of our boarders voluntarily join these activities that include outdoor experiences, cultural aware- ness trips, service opportuni- ties, and more. In particular, our girls are pushing themselves to be more self-reliant and risk taking. The residential life curriculum is not a sequential program of a series of pre-set lessons; it is an organic pro- gram, which reflects differen- tiation and response to current student needs, interests and pivotal events in the school calendar. It is often tied to the advising curriculum, such as in discussions about peer pres- sure, goal setting and study skills. It grows and evolves with the Keystone residential com- munity, as we grow with it. 109