#JustBe Magazine June 2016 | Page 18

RELATIONSHIPS By: Tarsha Williams We’ve all been a victim of the “by now” complex. By now I should have... had kids made more money Had better grades been married had a bigger home Graduated School Started College Been in a relationship had a Job … and the list continues. If you let it, the “by now” complex can go on forever. ©2016 The University of Texas Health Science Center at Houston