#1) He’s better at sex. #3) He doesn’t waste his time
with phonies anymore.
I know this for a fact because young guys
nowadays care more about getting off than
they do having an emotional connection.
We’ve trained ourselves to be that way—sex
is instant gratification. Don’t get me wrong,
there are definitely some youngens who love
connecting but for men of a certain age, sex
means a little more than a swipe & type. Plus
he has a good couple of decades on you—
he knows what’s up. Something happens when you leave your
thirties. You realize that time is precious and
you’d rather spend with people real people—
men and women who aren’t trying to be
something they’re not or still desperate for the
world’s approval. Being around that kind of
energy drains your progress and brings you
down, so guys who know better will always
surround themselves with stronger and
thicker-skinned people. Your network of
friends will ripen.
8 Reasons Why Older Men
Make the Best Boyfriends
#2) He knows more about life,
which means he can hold
a conversation. #4) He’s been “fixed” numerous
times before you.
This is a given not just because of his age,
but because of how vastly different our culture
has changed in the last ten years. Before we
had smart phones and social media, we had
to communicate with each other—face to face.
He understands the value of community and
can probably tell you stories that put your
Disney-centric gossip to shame. Being social
was a part of his upbringing. He wasn’t
unlucky enough to find his teenager years
hidden behind a computer or webcam. He was
out living it, and he’ll enlighten you
with this knowledge. He’s probably had a series of long-term
relationships before shacking up with you,
which is a good thing because it means he
recognizes toxic qualities in himself that have
inhibited him in the past. He has a good vision
now of how to be a better boyfriend because
he’s learned the hard way. With every lover,
every broken heart, he’s gained new
perspectives—a perspective he’ll bring to you.
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