Dear Missing Emotional
Intimacy,
honesty, and authenticity
sound like, “Honey,
I’m really upset about
something and I need a
sounding board. Can you
help me by listening to my
problem and let me know
if I’m over reacting?” By
letting your partner into
your world, he or she feels
included and helpful while
you feel taken care of. All
of this fosters wonderful
intimacy.
I have three great tips for
you that’ll help build your
emotional intimacy with your
husband as if you’re back on
your honeymoon:
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Imagine Intimacy.
Imagination is powerful
because beneath the
images of the mind, you
can tap into the realm of
possibility. Like a goal or a
dream, envision what you
want with your partner.
Then, be grateful now for
what you’ve envisioned,
before you even
actualizing it. Gratitude
is key because it’s the
gateway to welcoming it
into your life.
Be vulnerable, honest
and authentic. If you’re
struggling, say so. It’s an
amazing opportunity for
intimacy with your partner.
Here’s what vulnerability,
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Be trusting and
trustworthy. Author John
Gottman has spent much
of his career researching
and writing about the
behaviors of couples.
He reports that trust is
built in a culmination of
lots of little moments
between two people. An
example of this would be
a husband saying to his
wife, “Sweetie, I see that
you are having a tough
time right now. What do
you need? How can I help
you?” Or, a wife telling
her husband, “Thank you
for fixing the wobbly door
knob. It’s things like this
that make my day run
a little easier.” Another
interesting trust-builder
is asking for help. These
seemingly small gestures
are great for building a
trusting relationship.
So, relax and enjoy your way
back into delicious emotional
intimacy with your husband.
Want free relationship advice
right away? Take advantage
of Tamara’s free 45-minute
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Whether you are single or
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Wishing love,
Tamara
Elle Magazine dubs Tamara Green, LCSW “The Soul-centered Love
Expert.” She is an author, speaker and trainer, helping thousands of people
to navigate the waters of love, dating and relationships – all while falling
madly in love with themselves in the process. Trained as a Love Mentor® by
Dr. Diana Kirschner, Individual and Couples Psychotherapist, Meditation
Practitioner and Hypnotherapist, Tamara’s coaching is highly effective as she
combines her many years of professional training with her gifts as an energy
healer, intuitive and seer. As a result, Tamara creates an exciting catalyst for
deep emotional healing, giving her clients greater success in life and love. She
has devoted her life to helping women rise out of pain and fear so they can finally experience the long lasting and loving relationship of their
dreams. As well as working 1-on-1, Tamara offers free weekly meditation audios that take you on a journey of love with ease and joy.
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