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3. He’ll experiment with your sexual fantasies. In a perfect world, our boyfriends will be more than willing to please our sexual cravings. But that’s a science fiction idea; the truth of the matter is not everyone is going to be comfortable enough to experiment, even if they seem like the perfect boyfriend. It takes an awesome dude to laugh it off and say “F**k it. Let’s do it.” Whatever you’re into should be okay because, if it’s true love, the baseline of the entire experience will be fueled by gentleness and caring. 4. He’s his own person and is unafraid to show it. One of the greatest aphrodisiacs is being with someone who is totally different from you. Trust me, the conversations are more interesting but they only last as long as the interest itself. While it’s important for a man to march to the beat of his own drum, it’s still crucial for you to be on the same page, which is why having separate worlds is only going to benefit the connec- tion. He’s independent and is unafraid to let you know – that makes him more valuable, which makes you want him even more (and vice versa). He lets your wings spread as far as they can go without having you fly away; and you do the same for him. It’s a beautiful thing. 5. He’s smarter than you in the areas you’re not. It’s all about balance. The things you lack, he more than makes up. If you live more inside your head, he tends to be more organized and worldly. This makes the bond grow deeper. Being in a relationship where you both are riding the same hemisphere of the brain will eventually drive you insane. 33