July 2018 Issue #19 July 2018 Issue #19 4Guys | Page 32

Sex & Relationship
10 SIGNS YOURE DATING PERFECT MAN
There are very few guys who meet the man of their dreams. When it happens it’s like a miracle
from gay heaven. We’ve read about him in fairy tales so when we’re staring face to face, it’s
unbelievable. It’s like a dream.
A gay relationship is no different than any other. The dynamics are exactly the same, the prob-
lems are identical (if not worse), and the chemical bond that ties us is fueled within the same
areas. You’re lucky to find him when you do. Here are a few signs you have:
1. He loves you not because of
your flaws, but despite of them.
When someone stays with you because of your flaws, you’re never going to be inspired to
change them. You’ll be stuck in a flaw-filled universe, which can only force you to create even
more flaws. But when someone loves you despite your flaws, they become fuel for you to grow
and progress into a more structured life. This is something we all benefit from.
2.
He’s unafraid to show affection in public.
Gay couples experience this on a daily basis. We’re not as comfortable to show affection in
public, which creates an uncomfortable balance in the relationship. We become hypnotized
into thinking we still should be ashamed, we still ought to hide our love, and we still are sec-
ond-class citizens. But when a man is unafraid to express how he feels for you publicly, he’s
flicking the middle finger to all of that crap – he thinks you’re worth it. That in itself speaks
thousands of words about his devotion to you.
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