July 2016 Magazine | Page 43

M y plate is full... really full. In the past, those full-plate times of my life would cause a lot of stress and be overwhelming. I would typically struggle to feel good since I believed if I didn’t get it all done, or if I failed, something bad would happen. What I have come to learn is that all of my to-do list items that are important will eventually meet completion without my fretting and stressing. And my greatest revelation is that if some things on my list happen to not get done, I will still continue to live. I can even continue to live in a state of joy. The sky will not fall. Dark clouds will not form over my head and follow me into eternity. My heart will continue to beat. I will still hold the ability to laugh, to love, and to enjoy all of the gifts of everyday life that show up on my path. I need not give up the joy and peace of this moment as a sacrifice for accomplishing more and more...and more. I get to choose what is most important. I can go from one thing to the next with a spirit of joyful anticipation, and then feel the great sense of accomplishment (and sometimes even surprise) when I complete a task that previously seemed daunting. I can enjoy the process, the ride, the adventure, without sacrificing what I believe is the way I was meant and created to be. After years of believing my worth was dependent on how many things I accomplished every day, I now know that all things crossed off my to-do list are just things. They do not determine how much joy I get to experience. Kate transitioned from a 28 year nursing career to life coaching and as a personal fulfillment workshop leader in 2001. After many years of coaching people from all walks of life, she and her business partner repeatedly heard requests from their clients to combine joy and fulfillment with leadership principles. It was that concept that led them to create their business, Triumph Leadership Group, where they focus on training teams from all sized businesses to build positive and productive cultures. Kate and her business partner, David Larson have co-authored two books, Wide Awake: Three Minutes a Day to an Inspired Life and Heartfelt Leadership: Creating a Culture of Connection. They believe when relationships don’t work, the business doesn’t work and that workers who share heartfelt connections will help business thrive on every level. eydismedia.com 43