July 2016 Magazine | Page 29

I thought I lacked. Wishing that I was famous and successful and all that ever did was make me feel badly that I wasn’t. I spent so much time wishing for other things that I ended up losing sight of what I did have and then realized how important and special all that was to me once I lost it. Until one day, I finally learned that there are only so many tomorrows. I believe we have all heard that statement (or some version of it) throughout our lives. Yet, in my travels and opportunities to connect with so many people over the years, I have discovered that we don’t really think about the deeper meaning within those words. For most of us, it becomes just another inspirational meme we see plastered all over social media. We finally begin to understand the true depth of that statement when we, unfortunately, lose something or someone important. My greatest hope is that you don’t have to experience any sort of loss or regret in your life for it to sink in. So, I thought I would share with you what that statement means to me and how I have learned to use it in my life to truly live in the now. For me, it’s screams, “Jump in the game!”, “Love who you are!”, and “Love who you’re with!” Appreciate the challenges, the bumps, the bruises, the beauty, blessings and milestones. Appreciate all the “no’s” you’ve heard in life because it’s made you strive for what you really want and made you realize what is truly important. It’s also allowed you to see that you are still capable of surviving in spite of getting what you think you want. Appreciate the “yes;” those were confirmations that you were on the right path, that you were following your gut, and listening closely to the whispers leading you. There are only so many tomorrows. with excuses that certain things had to line up. I never really took the opportunity to look at what I did have. I never really took the opportunity to celebrate the moments in my life because I was too busy looking ahead at what I wanted or what BE PRESENT TO IT ALL. Stop and notice the people, places, and things around you as they are all teachers, lessons and blessings along your journey. Be aware of what you are feeling. When you are present to those feelings, you are honoring eydismedia.com 29