to new, exotic places.
Whatever your dream, you
can create a plan now to start
making it happen.
Use your history.
Remember those things you
did when you were
romancing your new love?
Make a list and do them
again now, suggests Paul N.
Weinberg. He is the coauthor of The I Factor:
Simple Insights for
Connecting in Your Personal
Relationships. "It could be as
simple as a way you kissed
your partner on the cheek or
as elaborate as the effort you
put into a special date."
A healthy long-term
relationship is something to
be proud of, and couples need
to celebrate that.
Make it clear to family and
friends—and especially to
each other—that your
relationship as a couple is the
most important relationship
in your life.
Don’t Take Your LongTerm Relationship for
Granted
"The mistake most couples or
one person makes is they're
so much in love with their
partner that they assume the
relationship will last forever,"
says Robert Billingham, an
associate professor in Indiana
University Bloomington's
Department of Applied
Health Science. "They don't
think it is something they
have to work on."
Identify your relationship's
strengths, then build on them,
say Les Parrott, III, PhD, and
Leslie Parrott, EdD, husbandand-wife founders of the
Center for Relationship
Development in Seattle.
Know what works well in
your relationship and do
more of it.
Dream big. Envision a future
together than inspires you.
Maybe it's a home bustling
with a big family or vacations
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