"Sex is the playground of a
marriage," says Campbell.
"Fun doesn't have to mean
you have to engage in sexual
acrobatics; it just means have
fun."
a smile and a happy partner,"
says Campbell.
Focus on you.
What fuels your passion?
Maybe it's having an exciting
career or training for a half
marathon. No matter -- just
get out and do it. When you
love yourself and your life,
you bring more energy and
interest into your
relationship.
Talk.
Do you spend a lot of time
trying read your partner’s
mind? Limit the guess-work
by being open and honest; it
can bring you closer. "Ask
your partner what he or she
needs from you. Take turns.
The goal is to show more and
see more of each other, rather
than defend the status quo,"
says Meyers. The rewards
run deep. Great conversation
often leads to more open,
loving sex, she says.
"Independence and a sense of
purpose are sexy," explains
Campbell. When you take
care of your own needs and
pursue what you're passionate
about, you become less
predictable and more
interesting to your partner.
It's a win-win situation.
You'll be more confident and
peaceful as you keep
evolving, and your
relationship will thrive.
Every discussion doesn't have
to be serious. Lighthearted
laughter goes a long way in
lifting your spirits and
reconnecting. Have fun.
Crack a joke. Revel in the
humor of a situation together.
"There is nothing sexier than
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