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entertainment and creating fun group games. bride is more of a music and dancing girl. Don't try to do everything yourself. Planning a wedding shower takes as much effort and time as planning any other event. The shower signifies the lead-up to the biggest day of the bride's life, and organizing it can be hard work and stressful. Utilize the assistance of the bridesmaids and other close females. Don't be afraid to delegate some responsibilities. Confirm RSVPs and finalize the menu and seating plan, if applicable. Offer assistance to out-oftown guests and organize transportation. Buy your gift for the bride. This takes careful consideration, so give yourself plenty of time to think about it. Perhaps something personal and sentimental that reflects your friendship and why you're her maid of honor. MORE TIPS Plan well in advance. A well-planned shower will lower the risk of lastminute problems and timeconsuming errands. Ensure the shower reflects the tastes of the bride. For instance, don't plan a conservative sit-down dinner or tea party if the Make the guest list. If the shower is a surprise for the bride, the maid of honor (or whoever is hosting the showers) will need to talk with the mother of the bride or the 47