and incorporate her ideas
into your own plans.
Select a date that suits
everybody. Give at least
two months' notice to all
invitees, and don't choose a
date too close to the
wedding.
Send invitations. Ensure
that everyone you're
inviting is also invited to the
wedding. If you're hosting a
themed shower, include
details in the invitation.
Book caterers if you're
having them, and plan the
menu. Alternatively, draw
up a list of party food and
drinks and delegate the
shopping.
Establish a budget. While
the shower is the maid of
honor's responsibility, the
other bridesmaids are also
involved. Get together and
decide how much you're
willing to spend--this
includes the venue,
decorations, food, drinks
and gifts.
Purchase accessories, such
as decorations, flowers and
party favors. Put thought
into your favors--these are
your way of thanking the
guests for coming. Ideas for
favors include personalized
candles, candy boxes, and
elegant key chains.
Make reservations if you're
throwing the shower in a
place other than a house or
apartment (either yours or
another bridesmaid's).
Check the venue can hold
the amount of people you
plan to invite.
Plan and prepare games
and activities for the
shower. The shower will be
more of a success if the
guests are having a good
time. Consider booking
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